Undecided

[Jetta]

My boyfriend was offered a job 9 hours from home that he is seriously considering. The problem is I don't want to live here. My daughter lives 9 hours away. I'm thinking about just going back to moms. If he really wants me as part of his life he will make it happen. If not, maybe it is time for me to get back to reality. I'm wavering. I basically have nothing but a pile of bills. Not even a car. I think I know what I need to do. Just sucks in a major way.

[Batya33]

I think you should prioritize your daughter over a boyfriend but that's just me. I am sorry you have this stressful situation.

[Seraphim]

My daughter or some dude who rooked me for thousands... Hmmmmmmm

 

No contest there .

[sadchick83]

Generally, men place a lot of importance on their employment. So my guess is that he will go. Did your computer spell check....Can't tell if you meant to say live "there," but typed "here?"

[bulletproof]

My daughter or some dude who rooked me for thousands... Hmmmmmmm

 

No contest there .

 

Totally agree.

[Miss Firecracker]

Good choice, Jetta!

[chickadeedee]

Daughter, daughter, daughter. Never ever choose a man over your chlid.

 

And consider spending your time thinking about a plan to really solve the issues in your life, get a career going that will support you in a way you can support yourself and your daughter rather than wandering through an endless series of loser men. Quit focusing on these loser men who just drag you down, and focus on improving your life and taking charge of it. If you start improving your life, you will improve your self esteem and the quality of men you bring into your life.