asmodai Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 Just wanted to say a quick hi to everyone out there who doesn't have someone special at the moment. I imagine that this time of year is the worst for alot of people, it is for me right now - it sucks that there's no one to share the holidays with Well, roll on new years, and hope that 2005 brings happiness and a new relationship to those currently without, or prosperity for those lucky enough to be in one right now.. 1 Link to comment
cassandra Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 It's horrible isn't it. And the worse thing is Valentines day is just around the corner. Oh Well I'll just have to see what the new year brings this time round. Link to comment
Zanardi Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 That makes three of us. Merry Christmas and a Happy Hew Year! Link to comment
asmodai Posted December 24, 2004 Author Share Posted December 24, 2004 Another thing i would just like to say how valuable this forum is. I honestly wouldn't have expected that I would be the sort of guy to go to a forum for relationship advice, but believe me it HELPS. When i'm feeling a bit down and miss my ex, i come here and read a few posts- that is when i realise that everyone in the world is not invincible, that i'm certainly not the only to feel the bad sides of love, and the future surely holds bright prospects if only i'd lift my head up to see it... And, yeah - wasnt going to mention Valentines- It was on valentines last year that I first rang up my ex to ask her out , and I'm sure this years going to be a sore moment unless I meet someone in the meantime. (please please please ) Why do they always turn it into such a marketing hype -ads with cuddly cutesy couples and such?? its so annoying, .... but I digress. How about anyone else? Feel free to post- lets just see how many lonely and single people are out there eh?? Link to comment
Ated Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 Hey asmodai! Merry X'mas! I thought u were 17 yrs old?? :S Link to comment
asmodai Posted December 24, 2004 Author Share Posted December 24, 2004 LOL! nope, not last time i checked anyway... why would you think that? Link to comment
Ated Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 oh are u the guy studying medicine?? I dunno... weird... I'm having a mental block. I guess its cos my sleeping pattern is just soo weird these days... meh! Link to comment
jbutterfly2020 Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 I am in the same crowd with you all. I don't have a boyfriend at the moment just family and friends. For me, being single hurts most for New Year's Eve and Valentines. I count how many I have been "alone" for and tool over why I am still single. But I just go out with my other single gals and we laugh the night away. I hope everyone at least enjoys the holidays no matter who you are with. Link to comment
twizod Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 I guess I am somewhat fortunate b/c this is my third breakup with the same person and am sick of the rollercoaster ride. Isn't this an opportunity to live and learn? I mean, that's why you are here at this forum...to learn to read to educate yourself. I have never really spent time with my friends when I was involved. I did off and on but not what they deserved. So this holiday I am gonna call them and wish them a Merry Xmas and spend time with them New Years and give them the grattitude they deserve for putting up with me. I truly feel lucky this holiday and New Years b/c I have a chance to start again, get it right, and strengthen my friendships. Link to comment
amanda22 Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 hmmm, i hate to say i am a part of the club cause it sucks and hurts, but i am. bf dumped me and is sharing the holidays with someone else and new years and valentines and everything in between. i hate this time of year... Link to comment
Spirits Away Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 I don't know about you guys, but yesterday i was just talking to one of my female friend. She has a boyfriend for 4 years now but she kept on liking other guys. Thinking from that guy's standpoint, i really think it's a pain to have a relationship. I'm very satisified to be single. Link to comment
Bibora Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 One more X-mas with no one special... The other ones weren't that hard but this one will be hard as hell... Everything was being settled and was really excited with the idea of showing how a X-Mas was in my country. Guess i planned to soon. Yeah 2004 will have the worst X-mas ever for me. Link to comment
wanderer Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 yea... all my past holidays and new years were fine cause i'd never really even thought about being alone... i didn't know what it was like being with someone yet. then 2004 saw my first girlfriend which ended horribly, and results in her enjoying the holidays with her new bf who incidentally was fooling around with her while i was dating her anyway... i guess it works out for them cause they're together and happy now. but man, i wish i didn't have to suffer like this for something i didn't do. i just hope i can at least find someone who's interested in me before valentine's day, it will probably suck more than xmas and new years' alone. Link to comment
Bibora Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 i just hope i can at least find someone who's interested in me before valentine's day, it will probably suck more than xmas and new years' alone. Don't be to anxious on trying to find somebody. The more you look the less you find. Just meet new ppl, see your friends, family and enjoy your time. It will happen eventually. Link to comment
HajiMaji Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 Valentines day?!?! Please take those words back! I know by valentines day i still wont be completely over my ex so i know i wont have a new relationship to think about Ugh it hurts. Today hurts worst. So far the holidays have been hard but im really feeling it today.. I want the feeling to go away!!! Love to everyone though. Its funny how times and situations like this can get a hold of us. Just remember its about growing and loving and being an awesome person to the core! Link to comment
Scottrn Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 How about thinking of Valentines day as a day for yourself? I never really bought into V-day, so I guess it's not so dreadful for me. Where did it come from anyway? Was it hallmark, or a diamond company!! Link to comment
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