Is it ever "ok" to contact the guy first after the first date?

[patterned]

There are no rules but the ones you make for yourself. Nothing ventured nothing gained. No one is going to lose interest they may have had because you contacted them after the date.

[IAmFCA]

Batya you make a good point. If I have said thank you before the date is over, then I don't need to text. I agree with that.

[Redabc123]

There are no rules but the ones you make for yourself. Nothing ventured nothing gained. No one is going to lose interest they may have had because you contacted them after the date.

 

Nicely said, He actually just texted me back, not sure if the interest is there but I like the way you but your statement

[Batya33]

Glad he responded. If he wants to see you again he will set up a date -time and place. I'd leave the ball in his court for now.