Tryingtobestrong Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 Dear everyone, my boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me 2 months ago. His reason was that he could not see a future for us as we wanted different things from life. Me marriage and children, him money and career. The day he moved out he started sending me messages about how sad he felt, that he missed and thinks he made a mistake. A week later he asked for a second chance and I told him that I needed to think about it. A few days later I said lets try! But by then he had changed his mind. He said that he needed to be by himself to figure out what he really wanted out of life and if I was the one he wanted to be with or not. We kept in touch via sms and email and met up again a week later or so. In that meeting he told me that he needed more time to make up his mind so I suggested a month of NC. He agreed and said that would be for the best. He did not stick to it though and contacted me a few days later. We were in contact and met again about 3 weeks later. Before we met we spoke on the phone and I asked him how he felt about me and us. He said that he did not love me anymore, did not miss me and did not want to get back together in the near future. Great, we met so I could give him his things and to my surprise had a really nice evening. When I came home he send me a message saying that it was really good seeing me and that I looked really good indeed. Well, after that I did not hear from him for a week. I nearly went crazy, but did not contact him. A week later he wrote and said that he was superbusy. I replied that it was okay and that I was doing good. He wrote again the next day, but I chose to ignore his message. After that he contacted me again 2 days later, 5 days later and another 2 days later. In his messages he is always casual and friendly asking me how I am doing and what is new in my life and telling me what he is up to. I have ignored his last 4 messages because he did not say anything about us or about missing me in it. I thought that maybe if I gave him some NC he would realise that he loves me and would start missing me. Now I have not heard from him in 6 days and I am starting to doubt that it is wise to ignore his messages. I really love him and would love to try again, but I dont know if being available for casual, friendly conversation is going to do the trick. What do you think? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Quote Link to comment
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