diverp Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 I have been dating this girl for a few months now. We are both in our mid-30's. I have been in long term relationships before and so has she (she has been married before). She has asked some small questions in a round about way (things pointed towards living together, but really without flat out coming and saying that). I really like her and she really is affectionate with me. She likes to have her time alone with friends and so do I. We totally understand the need we both have to be with each other and with other people. I have refrained from saying anything too mushy with her, or with bringing up things too fast with her. One reason is that I don't really want to come accross as being too pushy and I want her to feel comfortable. On the other hand, I would like to tell her a little more often that I love her and that I would like to live together in the future. There is a little bit of second guessing going on I guess. I don't know if it is a good idea to just flat out come out and say "I love you, lets start thinking about living together". To be honest, this is the first time in a long time that I have felt very comfortable with someone and would feel good with having a longer committment with her. I guess what I am trying to figure out is what an average girl likes to hear from a guy she is dating. I don't mean what should I tell her to get her off my back kind of thing. I mean, what would I be able to tell her now that would comfort her and let her know that I am going to be around a long time with her and that I would like to take it a step further? I don't want to be pushy or come accross as clingy, I simply want her and I to be on the same page. Any thoughts? Quote Link to comment
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