Fif Angel Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 This is more of a question for the ladies but guys feel free to chip in... My boyfriend and I have always enjoyed an active bedroom life- he is always in the mood, I usually am ( apart from a couple of times if Im tired etc) and usually whenever we meet up we usually end up in bed as we only see each other a couple of times a week. Over the past few times, however, he has just not been in the mood. I have tried to initiate it by kissing etc but he just claims that he is tired. I know that he has been under a lot of stress at work recently but he has never rejected my advances before and, well, even if its irrational, it hurts me a little. Before you all say `oh come on he`s stressed at work, he`s tired` let me say that he has been stressed/tired before but it has never affected his stress drive-in fact if anything he said it helps him to relax. Im so used to him initiating sex that its really strange to see him just not wanting it, especially since its happened the last couple of times that I`ve seen him- and considering that we don`t see each other every day, you`d think it would make him want it more. I don`t know if this is symptomatic of going out for two years and the spark fizling out a bit. This is the first time he`s not been interested. Ladies has this happened to you? How does it make you feel? I suppose, as women we like to consider ourselves sexy and desirable but being rejected certainy doesn`t make me feel like that at the moment Quote Link to comment
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