mirrorman Posted July 8, 2010 Share Posted July 8, 2010 Being well past my teens and twenties I'm not likely to find a virgin. Let's just say that if by some chance a woman that I hit it off with turned out to be a virgin, I'd do all I could to make her first time as good as it can be (patience and understanding, along with a sense of humor, go a long way here). Having said that, I'm much more concerned with how a prospective partner and I would get along rather than the amount of sexual experience she might have. Link to comment
Unreasonable Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 Well, I married a virgin, as a virgin, and I think there is something very special about being able to say you've never been with anyone else. It was important to me as a young guy. But, if I were to marry again, it probably wouldn't matter to me since I'm already experienced. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 Im machist so i need a virgen to marry the non virgens are just to get laid but there are some that make you think twice cause they are really cool but yeah seeing someones else's * * * * with your dream girl in your mind is not a very pretty sight I feel bad for the "non virgins" girls you screw around with before you get to the real thing. They are someone else's "dream girl" too. Link to comment
obs Posted July 9, 2010 Share Posted July 9, 2010 If it's someone you want a relationship with, it doesn't matter at all. Link to comment
desert_rose26 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 I'm 26 and a virgin..and I'm darn proud of it. hehe. I'm a traditional girl...and I believe in saving myself for one guy who will love me enough to marry me. my co-workers asked me what if I don't ever find that guy would I remain a virgin forever? my answer would be I have no choice but to...I would never sleep with anyone who is not my husband. I can't even imagine. And yeah..people get surprised...when they find out..but oh well.. Link to comment
Exchange Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 It's fun to have a virgin considering its all new to them. Let's just say experienced women can do certain things virgins may not be able to do... Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 I'm 26 and a virgin..and I'm darn proud of it. hehe. I'm a traditional girl...and I believe in saving myself for one guy who will love me enough to marry me. my co-workers asked me what if I don't ever find that guy would I remain a virgin forever? my answer would be I have no choice but to...I would never sleep with anyone who is not my husband. I can't even imagine. And yeah..people get surprised...when they find out..but oh well.. Your my type. Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Don't care. There are too many other more important things I'm factoring in. As long as you're not going to give me something or commit it to memory for life, we're good. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 As long as you're not going to give me something or commit it to memory for life, we're good. I think all of us will remember that first time memory regardless. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 If I am a virgin at marriage, I would like her to be as well. I really want to do it before marriage, but I would not object to waiting if I truly loved her (which I would if I was getting married) That said, I would worry if I was a virgin and she was not. I think I would feel like she has a certain power over me and that I will always be compared to someone else where she would be my yardstick. If I was not a virgin I wouldn't care unless she had been with a ton of guys. So I guess, I would want an equivalent amount of experience as her. --Joey This is why I always insisted I would lose my virginity to another virgin. I did too. And that relationship ended eventually, but then when me and my current boyfriend had sex I felt we were on a more equal footing as we both were not virgins. I never liked the idea of being the innocent one, the one who needs to be taught, I wanted to be equal and I make sure I am still. I don't like feeling inferiour to someone and that includes sexually. I guess I wouldn't be put off a virgin myself though as long as they were not put off by the fact that I am not one. Also I couldn't be with someone waiting for marriage, because I want sex as a part of my relationship. I would never try and pressure a guy who wanted to wait into breaking his values, I just wouldn't be in a relationship with him. Non virgin guys are fine obviously as long as they are clean from STDs . I guess I'd be a little put off however if they had a double digit number of partners (and in my age group...I am 21). Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 I wish I could hurry up and lose my virginity. I wanted to wait but dating has proven difficult enough to the point where I've had no success. I really just want to say screw it and go sleep with a prosituite and get it over and one with but there's to much on the line that prevents me that makes it so risky. Link to comment
zccr3279 Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 I would prefer marrying a woman who is not a virgin. That way I can find out if we are sexually compatible BEFORE making our marriage vows. Agree 100%! My girlfriend is not compatible (see nearby post) and I would have been setting myself up for disaster... Link to comment
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