Rigel Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 There's this guy at work who I want to ask out maybe for a date to get to know him better. We're both really shy. However, my brother told me it's a turnoff to guys if a girl asks them out. Is my brother speaking the truth or is he just messin w/ me? Link to comment
Tom_Bombadil Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 A turnoff? Absolutely not!! Though I suppose some guys prefer to have the upper hand and do the asking. Heck, most guys wish girls would ask them out. In fact, I see alot of girls doing it now. I'd say go for it! Good luck Link to comment
drahcir Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 Your brother is probably speaking honestly, but only from his own experience. I don't find it a turn off. In fact I would like it if a girl showed she really cared about me. I think thats the same for most guys. Link to comment
johnagent1911 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 I would not mind at all if a girl asked me out. It's not a turn off at all, and I have no clue why it would be.... Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 ask him out, he'll like the confidence and it definitely won't be a turn off Link to comment
VeryShyGuy Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 Personally, I would be flattered if a girl asked me out. Link to comment
Justin87 Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 i think it is sort of a turn off i wouldnt like it if a girl asked me out because if you were planning on asking her out soon and she did it first it would be a self esteem let down, i think the best thing to do in that situation is give big hints like you want to go out or bring up something thats going on that weekend and if he is interested in the same kind of event and he might ask, if he doesnt ask though i guess your only choice is to ask him because he is probably really shy. Link to comment
Bobo Posted October 16, 2004 Share Posted October 16, 2004 This may sound weird, but sometimes (in my case, a lot of the time!) a guy can feel burdened if they think it's up to them to ask someone they like out. Im telling you, a lot of guys would PREFER to be asked out by a girl, than to ask them out! Link to comment
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