Justin87

anyone?

i think it is sort of a turn off i wouldnt like it if a girl asked me out because if you were planning on asking her out soon and she did it first it would be a self esteem let down, i think the best thing to do in that situation is give big hints like you want to go out or bring up something thats going on that weekend and if he is interested in the same kind of event and he might ask, if he doesnt ask though i guess your only choice is to ask him because he is probably really shy.

Ok today was friday, so i went and asked her if she asked her dad if she could goto the fair and she said "yeah........ but i kinda already have a ride.... maybe ill see you there...." and stopped talking to me, then she diliberately left class late to ignore me and i havent spoken to her then, i dont know why shes acting like this when she was so excited to go with me wednesday. anyway im gonna forget about her and get a diff girl if she wants space or just doesnt want to go out.. what do ya'll think?

Im 17 and i think shes 14, or 15. Im gonna try to make it the best 2 weeks of her life for sure. I know one thing that would make her think twice, its a gift she wants thats over a $100 but thats alot to spend on a girl you barely know, ya know? i have a job, car, everything, she should be happy. I know ill probably buy her some roses before i pick her up before we goto the fair. Thanks for helping, anybody else have any suggestions?

so do ya'll think the problem is that she is just sad? i really wanna go with her even if shes moving, we'll see what happens. girls, if you were in her situation would you be acting the same way? or still excited?

yes but honestly this is my "first" girlfriend, like officially. i played around with some girls in the past but not like "boyfriend/girlfriend" anyways i really like her and she said a while back she was moving back in december so i thought i'd have some time with her then she says two weeks, so im thinking maybe i can change her mind to move to FL in december but i dont know how shes doing it, maybe she got plane tickets already. but this has sort of happened in the past, like i talked to this one girl for like a couple days then she ignored me but i think that was cuz i didnt give her enough space, im giving this girl space though... i feel like im doing everything right but shes not cooperating...

Ok yesterday in class this girl i like's friend asked me if I were going out with her friend and the girl i like was behind her and nodding her head yes, so i said yes. then after class i asked her to goto the fair with me and she said yes, i didnt have enough time to get her number though so i said ill talk tomorrow. So then i goto class today (the day after asking her out) and she just completely IGNORES me for no reason! so fuc*ing weird, whats up with this? She doesnt look at me the whole class or talk to me. so after class i walk up to her in the hall and ask her if she is still going to the fair with me Friday and she says "Maybe, i have to ask my dad." so i say ok well lemme just get your number and ill call you for the details and she says , "well i dont know my number cuz we just got it changed..." and i say ok... well just lemme know and ill talk tomorrow, and she just walks off and doesnt continue any conversation...? wtf? why do girls do this sh*t? what is the problem? I also forgot to mention she is moving to FL in 2 weeks from now, she told me the day i asked her out... could this have to do with it? maybe shes sad and thought it over and thought it was a stupid decision to go with me when shes moving...??? plz help me out, is this normal or is something wrong???? HELP!

Yes i agree, he is probably just trying to get in your pants and then blow you off, probably because your so young and you have a tighter... ANYWAYS yeah dump this dude before you get your feelings hurt..

ok heres what happened today. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. I was just bagging and i hear her come up next to me and tell some girl that her boyfriend was there a second ago (before i came in) and they were like yeah i heard. so i guess she has one. so the rest of the day i just casually worked normally. guess my chances are over with her. oh well i still got tabs on these two other girls so watchouta!

anyone? im going off to work now, hope all ends well.

i also forgot to mention she always pulls her hair down and makes direct eye contact with me when she fluffs her hair and puts it back up. And one thing: When i looked at her phone the other day, If i had a cell phone (Which i might get friday) i wouldve put my number in it and said call me, but i dont have a cell right now, (i have a car though ) she has a car too. i tried talking to her tonight about mexican music (shes spanish im american (white) ) and we started talking aboiut different types of mexican music because i told her some guy in my class was talking about a certain type. But i couldnt find a way to connect that music with her so called boyfriend. so i still dunno if she has a BF or not, tonight was just a casual night just like the usual nights. i wanted to ask her out so badly or get her attention when shes alone. everytime i went to get her attention someone showed up. also.. this kinda is a downer... i was cleaning the girls bathroom tonight, and she saw me go in to clean, 2 minutse later she comes in and says : "Can i borrow that mop when your done" and thats all. Such a downer.... lol. so after that i lost confidence and just ignored her for a few minutes and started laughing about things. i think she knows i like her alot, but i didnt ask her out tonight and i think time is running out before she blows me off. and sometimes when i think about asking her out it is intimidating cuz shes like 19 or 20 and im 17. i dunno what to do tommrow, i gotta make a move soon. I noticed we work tomorrow together and the next day we are both off. so i was thinking of asking her is she isnt doing anything the next day maybe we could get together but i still have to find out if she has a BF or not before i ask cuz it would be totally wrong to ask when she told me she had one, but i still dont believe she does shes just trying to cover up and make me jealous so that i want her more...... Maybe shes just playing with me for attention or she wants to go out but she's waiting for me to make a move in a designated time set by her.

i think i have an idea. im gonna ask her if she has anymore pics of herself (every guy would like to see more, haha) and if she does ill tell her shes beutiful and her boyfriend must be a lucky guy. if she says yeah.... then she has one but if she says she doesnt then ill ask her if she wants one or if she wants to go out with me. but in the other case, she could say no, she didnt take anymore pics and i'd have to find another reason to ask her if she had a bf... this sucks.

yeah i know what you said about finding out... "asking her if she saw a movie lately or something personal and ask if she saw with her BF or activity with him" but thats why i stated that i usually dont talk about personal things like that cuz i dont want her to think im weird or something asking things like that. and her sister doesnt know sh*t about her BF's so i dunno how else to find out. See i would ask her out but she stated she had a BF and now its been said so shes holding me back.

yeah i know but i have to act quickly and ask her out very soon or she will just think iwas being nice and think of me as another coworker... i just dont wanna ask her out and not know if she has a BF or not. i dont know what the best way would be to ask her if she had a bf or not, im not gonna ask her straight up cuz that would just be... rude?, giving myself away?, giving her a chance to say No in a polite manner?. its hard. and i usually dont talk to her about personal things like what she does in her free time and if she does them with a BF or not.. its a bad situation.

yeah but if i ignore her she just might forget about me and go out with some other guy. and i want this girl, shes really hot and is also nice. Maybe it wont work out and she just wants attention from everyone and im one of em...