Anyone else ever give into temptation with an ex?

[cupcake22]

A week after my BU, I met with my ex and he is a brilliant actor, tears and everything....We had sex and I hate myself for not being able to control myself. How could I let him have his cake and eat it too?! Ugh anyone else go through this?

[Rostik77]

Actor as in a profession..? Or a figure of speech? I had sex with my ex 2 and a half months after BU and she is the one who left me.

 

As for you.. Of you can't control yourself then don't see him it is as easy as that!

[cupcake22]

Figure of speech...yeah I don't plan on seeing him anymore, just hate that I couldn't put my foot down.

[mhowe]

Have his cake and eat it too?

 

Did you not willing consent to this? You had your cake and eat it too....but at least you are feeling indigestion.

[laura-j]

A week after my BU, I met with my ex and he is a brilliant actor, tears and everything....We had sex and I hate myself for not being able to control myself. How could I let him have his cake and eat it too?! Ugh anyone else go through this?

 

Don't beat yourself up. It's human and natural to fall back into patterns with someone we were close to. If you can't control yourself (and you want to god knows there were times with exs that I just wanted to get some...) if you see him again, just meet in public.

[Rostik77]

i'm happy you're realizing it after one time and not being used and abused, my ex and i both agreed to it ecause we both had the urge one day and we were okay with it. We talked before and understood that it was just sex and that neother of us would use it against eachother