julian19 Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 ahhh.. my hands are shaking....our mutual friend told me that my ex was almost kidnapped by a stranger last night... he told me that my ex posted it on her facebook,, so i immediately activate my facebook and saw the post... our mutual friend told me about it.. that last night, while my ex was on her way home, a stranger was asked for a help to guide him to the hospital because he was so sick.. my ex then helped him and on while walking, the starnager suddenly ask her to show him her ass.. she was so scared that she ran and their house was a few blocks away so she manage to get home safe... but the stranger was in their front house, kept on watching out for her and she was so scared.... im so worried about her... i want to express my concern to her... like seriously i am so worried that im crying right now... it hurts too much to know that she almost got into trouble... shes in other country and we are too far away from each other... i dont know what to do... im so worried...... Link to comment
metrogirl Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Well I'm sure if she called the police right away when she got home, she will be okay. She did call the police right? Link to comment
julian19 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 yes,, but im worried cause, they didnt caught him.. and she's always goin home late because of school.. and she has to walk on that street every night onm her way home... what if something liek that happen again..? im so worried.... but i cant express my concern due to NC... and im going crazy.... i dint know that i'll still be so worried and hurt like this.... i dont know what to do Link to comment
duke nukem Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 I would think it would be okay in this instance to check on her and make sure she's okay. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 I would think it would be okay in this instance to check on her and make sure she's okay. I'm not sure about that. Depending on how the break up went it may not be the best idea to start contact again. OP, if your ex is not a complete idiot she will take steps to make herself safe when walking home. Link to comment
LDRohnos Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Women need to be careful at night (heck men too). This is when the wackos come out of the woodwork. I'm glad she's alright, other than a scare. PS - If you haven't contacted her since...I would keep NC. She'll be fine. Link to comment
julian19 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 it was a bad break up.... shes the dumper and i made too much drama and begging and im out of that already... so im on strcit nc.... but then.... i cant help but feel so worried...... and i cant do anything about it so it makes me CRAZY.... i dont know what to do...... Link to comment
LDRohnos Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 it was a bad break up.... shes the dumper and i made too much drama and begging and im out of that already... so im on strcit nc.... but then.... i cant help but feel so worried...... and i cant do anything about it so it makes me CRAZY.... i dont know what to do...... There's little you can do. She wasn't assaulted or raped. She had a scare, she WILL be fine. Link to comment
julian19 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 yes... but then,, the stranger followed her on her house and was watching out outside... im worried if the stranger will come back.... maybe this time shes safe.... i dont know what if next time.. something happen../... im so * * * * ed up.... im stuck in this situation and theres nothing i cant do but to cry and feel so scared and worried for her..... but i cant even express it to her.... so i ran here, to divert myself from making a mistake of breaking my strict nc Link to comment
duke nukem Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Ah yeah, should have specified. If it was bad, probably not good to contact. If it was a more amicable break up, then it would make more sense. Link to comment
julian19 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 im going crazy.... my heart feel so painful and worried.... i cant sleep and eat at all.. i dint know that after all this time... im still going to feel this way toward my ex,... i still love her so much despite of her dumping me... i think she already forgotten about me.... shes so busy with her life,.. and i feel so hurt about that also.... Link to comment
dumPI Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 From the moment they want out of the RS, it means you are out of their lives. If anyone says it is not so ... wait until they (or you) find someone else. Then the ex will mean nothing. I see it like that. Someone who was able to share everything with you dumps you. That means it's up to her to cope with bad times and enjoy good times. You may secretly care for her (as you are likely stuck in the old times). No need to do anything though. Link to comment
imonlyhuman Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 you have to control yourself and not contact her. you might seem, in her eyes, like another stalker and do further damage. Link to comment
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