miss_sunshine86 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 My ex just disappeared last saturday and has been ignoring me ever since, (although I stopped trying to speak to him after 1 week). He is now on my facebook and I am really not sure why because last time he pulled a disappearing act 1.5 years ago he deleted and blocked me from everything. I feel like I don't have the strength to block and delete him and I can't delete facebook because I keep in touch with a lot of family and friends on this. Why. Link to comment
CaptainConfusion Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Because you don't want to face reality? The whole fb thing has me bugged. Your real friends and family will call you. Close your account. I did it over a year ago as the mutual friends/photos did my head in. Fb exacerbates issues/insecurities. Best thing I ever did Link to comment
Lisabroken Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Delete your account or close it for now. Facebook can drive you crazy. I closed mine 5 months ago and never looked back. If you have a mobile phone and your friends and family have your number, then its not THAT important to your life right now. Link to comment
TearsofFate Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I agree with CaptainConfusion. FB is really bad for these sorts of things. I made a rule that I'm never going to have people I date on my facebook. It's because my family is on there. I don't want my family involved with my exes and I don't want my exes involved with my family. To me, they are two separate worlds. I had one guy I dated delete my mom whenever he felt like leaving me, then re-add her and it was just horrible because I love my mom. FB is just a website. If it isn't doing you any good then either delete your account or make it into something that is good for you. I keep mine these days just to store pictures. I only have 20 people on there who are all family or old classmates. No boyfriends, exes or anything...unless I'm married to the guy! Delete him if it bothers you. Link to comment
markie6 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 my views , and experiences on that subject Link to comment
trixi Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I keep hearing the words "I can't" - YES YOU CAN - please stop making excuses for yourself and block him. His actions are not though through - there is no reasoning behind them or at least NOT the one's you would like them to be. Link to comment
lanaa Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 why did he stop speaking to you? did you have a fight? Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 The strong part of me wants to block and delete him myself. But the weak part which i suppose is the dominant part thinks he may stil have me on there because hes just mad and its not over he just needs some time. i know its stupid. i feel so miserable. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 Block and delete him. Think about how easily he did it to you. Plus, he's still hanging around after 1.5 years. If you change your mind a year from now, I'm sure he'll still be around to treat you badly. You're hot, girl, there are plenty of other guys.!! Link to comment
trixi Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 I don't really think you want the real answer but much rather confirmation that your wishes will come to be. Unfortunately we can't do this for you - I wish we could. You need to accept reality and let it be! (((HHHUUUGGSSS)) Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 i'm heartbroken, honestly. i guess 10 days in it is finally sinking in that it's over Link to comment
blueidealist24 Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 You could just unfriend and not block. Or if you don't want to see anything of his, hide his posts from your news feed. I tried this once, but unfortunately it didn't work and I had to go the unfriending route (he retaliated by blocking me actually). Link to comment
Stay_home Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 My ex just disappeared last saturday and has been ignoring me ever since, (although I stopped trying to speak to him after 1 week). He is now on my facebook and I am really not sure why because last time he pulled a disappearing act 1.5 years ago he deleted and blocked me from everything. I feel like I don't have the strength to block and delete him and I can't delete facebook because I keep in touch with a lot of family and friends on this. Why. You'll just have to bite down and find the strength to terminate him from your account. There's really no other way. Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 I dont know why he hasnt already deleted and blocked me. The other times he left he always deleted/blocked all traces of me. Sounds so petty really but causes so much upset. I am just feeling extra * * * * ty tonight because my mum and dad have been staying in my apartment for the past 3 days and they just left. They took my mind off things and now Im alone and feeling like * * * * . Link to comment
Autumnleaves Posted April 10, 2012 Share Posted April 10, 2012 If you don't want to give up FB then block him. Seriously he walked away without giving you any explanation, then ignores you. He sounds immature, don't think about his feelings think about your own. Block him. Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted April 10, 2012 Author Share Posted April 10, 2012 Yeah I know what I have to do. Just haven't done it yet... Link to comment
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