hawks0523 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 My girlfriend of 3 years is doing lunch tomorrow with a guy, the following day is doing drinks with another and the following is doing lunch with another guy. She is doing this to "catch up". In the past she has done work or worked with these guys. She knows that I'm not too wild about this. The first guy she is doing lunch with, she had done other computer programming classes one on one with (which she says she hated), now she wants to do lunch. I asked her about this about how she hated it, why would she want to go to lunch. She said he is a nice guy and they're going to catch up. When I asked her about this she brought up the other two guys and asked why I didnt ask about them (she says she just wants to catch up with all of them cause she hasnt talked to them since moving away in August)? The next day she is doing drinks with a guy that she knows pushes my buttons (he is married). The following day she is going to lunch with a guy that she use to run a company with. Tonight she is hanging out with a friend and I said that maybe I would go hang out with my friends then and she said you should just stay home I wont be gone all night.... To add to it, this past weekend we were going to do dinner before a concert and she cancelled saying that she felt fat and didnt want to eat out, then goes out to eat with all of these people. I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick. I don't know if she is testing me to see if I will say something since she knows that she is pushing my boundaries (and probably thinks im soft anyways). She says that I never tell her my feelings so this may be a test to see if I will stand up or if she is seeing if I will get jealous. Any advise on how to proceed would be great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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