elusivefox1 Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 And, he left the ball in my court. He told me to let him know when i wasn't busy tonight. Its tonight, and I'm still sitting here. I feel like if he was down for a booty call, he would contact me. But he told me to contact him, and now i'm sitting here wondering if i should contact him. IDK what to do at this point, cuz i'm personally fine wit a booty call, just dont know how to initiate it. Thats all i need right now. Hope i can get some help here. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 If you're fine with it, then call him. If you don't want to be a booty call, then don't call. Link to comment
Mesemene Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Yup - if you're fine with that, ring him up If you're after more than that, then toss the ball back at him. Link to comment
elusivefox1 Posted November 3, 2011 Author Share Posted November 3, 2011 Thanks. gave me a little assurance. My friends are kinda not in the same boat as I and I really needed that little advice. I didn't want to seem easy, but I need a rebound....in that sense,...if u know what I mean. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 If you are OK with being treated as his Booty Call go for it. If you want something more then don't. Link to comment
Shudder Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 it doesnt take much effot to be a booty call. all you havve to do is text him and mention the word sex Link to comment
Alezia Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Thanks. gave me a little assurance. My friends are kinda not in the same boat as I and I really needed that little advice. I didn't want to seem easy, but I need a rebound....in that sense,...if u know what I mean. It's just sex. No need to play games to not seem easy... Just phone him up if that's what you are into. Link to comment
laura40 Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 If you want sex with him, then call him. If you don't, then don't call him. Simple really. Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Hey you only need to text him three letters these days! DTF? Link to comment
The Archer Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 Hey you only need to text him three letters these days! DTF? I wish someone would start a thread on what all the abbreviations mean.... Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 I wish someone would start a thread on what all the abbreviations mean.... LoL! It's quite rude but it means "Down to Duck?" Just replace the duck with you know what what. It's all the rage, girls at my work receive these texts all the time and they think it's hilarious. Link to comment
Shudder Posted November 3, 2011 Share Posted November 3, 2011 LoL! It's quite rude but it means "Down to Duck?" Just replace the duck with you know what what. It's all the rage, girls at my work receive these texts all the time and they think it's hilarious. the question is: are they dtf? Link to comment
Blue Spiral Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 "dtf" is fine for established FWBs, but otherwise, it does help to use a bit more...tact. Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Around here, people say, "Want to come over and watch a movie?" Link to comment
Shudder Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 Around here, people say, "Want to come over and watch a movie?" i actually had that happen to me once, but when i got there, she didnt' really display any indications of it going further then a movie. so i've learned not to rely on just that (even though i was prepared) Link to comment
laura40 Posted November 4, 2011 Share Posted November 4, 2011 i actually had that happen to me once, but when i got there, she didnt' really display any indications of it going further then a movie. so i've learned not to rely on just that (even though i was prepared) Hehe. A few years back a guy I liked invited me over to "watch a movie." I was shy and didn't want to sleep with him (it was kinda like the third date so I thought it was too early), so I went around, sat on his sofa and just watched the movie. He was on the other end of the sofa and there was no interaction or anything physical at all during the film. I kind of knew he wanted more than just a movie but as I said, I thought it was too early. Afterwards he drove me home and I never saw him again. Don't know why I typed this, but thought it was relevant. Link to comment
Shudder Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Hehe. A few years back a guy I liked invited me over to "watch a movie." I was shy and didn't want to sleep with him (it was kinda like the third date so I thought it was too early), so I went around, sat on his sofa and just watched the movie. He was on the other end of the sofa and there was no interaction or anything physical at all during the film. I kind of knew he wanted more than just a movie but as I said, I thought it was too early. Afterwards he drove me home and I never saw him again. Don't know why I typed this, but thought it was relevant. its similar in my case, i saw her one more time for dinner. i walked her back to her place and we sat opposite each other with not contact. after that i never saw her again. looking back perhaps she wanted me to initialize something Link to comment
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