thegamev1 Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 So, after months of being in pain about my ex, I finally implemented the no contact rule about a month ago. I was still kind of checking her FB and Twitter accounts, and got some stuff that just kind of made me feel like poo (she's going out on a date this week, GAH), and I was very close to breaking the no contact. But today it hit me. It finally hit me after six months of trying to understand what the heck I did. I finally know now, and it suddenly made the whole "No contact" thing easier. Since we've been broken up I've been working out, I got a new job, and I finally got a car (part of my problem, I was a pansy and very unappealing when it came to improving my life). For the first time in a very long time, I understand everything, and I have accepted the breakup and why it happened. But even with accepting it, I still just miss her. I miss the genuine person she was, even if she did break my heart. Her birthday is coming up, and like I said, I've had no contact for over a month (and it will be longer until her birthday). Do I send a Birthday card with a nice little letter, or is a text good enough? Do I even do anything at all? Link to comment
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