meoww Posted August 19, 2011 Share Posted August 19, 2011 This man is an old ex of mine I met when I was 20. He recently contacted me for something and all the emotions came flooding back. By this, I mean, all the feelings of being manipulated and coerced into a sexual relationship I never wanted. He gives me the creeps, even though he was 28, I was a very immature 20 year old and I also look VERY young. I'd like to get over this feeling of violation and victimization but I can't let go. More than the age gap, I didn't like his lifestyle and the way he tried to control mine. I finally pulled myself together enough to leave 3 years later but I know it's not healthy to keep feeling this way. Has anyone ever felt taken advantage of in an age gap relationship and what did you do about it? The guy has a lot of emotional problems and prefers younger women. He's not the worst guy but I wish I could stop being so grossed out. I don't think it's very fair of me to be so harsh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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