Allyo Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 To give a little bit of background… I feel a bit scarred from my past relationship because when I broke up with my ex-boyfriend he told me that one of the problems of our relationship had been that it moved too fast. I have been seeing someone new since January, yet I feel so uncertain of how to “pace” the relationship, so I have been taking a very relaxed approach. And the relationship has been going slow, according to my standards, but we are also both very busy. And I do really like this new guy, but I feel like I am holding back a little. I am so afraid of having the “relationship talk" or going too fast and committing the same mistakes. I am just trying to enjoy every moment that I have with him. Anyways, last weekend this guy that I have been seeing invited me to the beach. We camped under the stars, and I really had a great time with him! Yet he asked me a question that sort of got stuck in my head. I told him to ask me anything he wanted, and the first question he asked me was what I expected from him. I answered that I had learnt not to have expectations, and that I always have a good time with him and wanted to keep getting to know him. He later asked what I felt when I was with him and what I liked most about him, but I answered pretty indirectly. He is renting an apartment but wants to move, and he asked me if there was room in my apartment for him since I am looking for a new roommate. I took it as a joke, but I think he was almost serious. I almost just shut down when he started asking me those questions since I wasn't expecting it. I hope I didn't mess up. Should I interpret these questions as him considering us more seriously…? Link to comment
DN Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Yes, I think you should although you need to make sure he isn't just looking for a place to stay. Link to comment
livelarge Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I think it's time to ask him what he expects of you. And quick! Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 No don't let him move in with you. Saying it in a way where "You need a Room-mate" - how calculating is that?!?!? A Room-mate???? Ummm no. Link to comment
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