benjaminge1 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 The other day i was outside a supermarket with my friend and i saw this girl walking towards the door and i said to my friend "dont look round now but the perfect looking girl for me is walking this way" Anyway it turned out he new her coz she works with him in the supermarket. The next night he invited her out. she came out and sat opposit me for a little while but i didn't have the balls to talk to her. Anyway she's working tomorrow in the supermarket and i had this idea but need some advice coz i don't know if it's romantic or cheesy. I'm thinking of making her a cd with 1 tune called Blowers Daughter by Damien Rice. If you havn't heard it the chorus goes "can't take my eyes off of you, can't take my mid off of you" etc Then i was gonna put i note in saying something along the lines of "the other night i couldn't take my eyes off of you. etc etc here's my number etc etc" Do you think she'll think i'm some sort of stalker, will she think I'm cheesy or romantic? Girls help, what would you think if someone done this for you? Thanks Ben Link to comment
arwen Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Hey benjaminge, How sweet! I would love it, but maybe you need to flirt with her first. Before you give the cd, first explore if she's responsive to a little eye-to-eye flirtation. Maybe go over her counter and make some small talk. Be friendly and show just enough interest but too much. If you feel a bit of a vibe or chemistry, you'll not be so uncertain after giving the cd. So, don't do that too fast. Wait a couple of days and act aloof. Don't come on too strong. I would be swept of my feet if someone did that for me!!! good luck!! Ilse. Link to comment
Openminded Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 I would label you as a stalker. YOu really need to just talk to her first before you jump the gun. Just be yourself, talk about her instead of yourself. Appear to be genuinely interested in her, and she will get the hint. Link to comment
PunkPyro912 Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Well it depends on what kind of girl she is. But i bet that shed find it interesting and cool, probably drop you a call to find out who it is. I hope it all works out for you (and nah it isnt really cheesy, better than something i would have done). Link to comment
northernlights Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 STALKER! Sorry, but I've had more than my share of people who do that, and quite frankly, I get creeped out by them, avoid them for the next year, and label them as stalkers. Seriously. Never ever just surprise a girl who might not even know you exist like that. Flirt with her. Talk to her. Hang out with her. THEN, once you get to know her personality better, you'll find out if she's the kind who will get freaked out by this kind of thing or not. But I think this is a rule that every guy really needs to get into his head. Confessing your feelings out of the blue for a girl who barely knows you is a baaaad baaaad idea, unless you're freakin' hot or famous. Link to comment
Scout Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Well, there's certainly a varied response here to this idea...personally, I think it's an amazingly cool & romantic idea and if a guy did that for me I would be incredibly flattered - and unless he was a total kook, I would definitely go out on a date with him. Link to comment
Scout Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 one more thing, though...leave your name and number, and make sure your friend tells her who it was. No need to be secretive. Link to comment
Santa Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 Stalker. Just do it normaly, no nonsense, no pressure. If you do this, she will most likely feel funny. Link to comment
eviljedi Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 Yeah, maybe ask your friend to ask her out again and this time try and talk to her. Link to comment
Ruby_123 Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 Well i think it's a lovely idea- I'm absolutely in love with damien rice, he's a god..and the song the blower's daughter is just bliss! Do it! if she's anything like me she'll love you forever. Link to comment
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