Leon91 Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 right.... another update! my ex of 6 years, split up with me 2 weeks ago we havent spoken since ( she had changed her number ) she saw me out and about today and text me off her new number i explain that i had actually moved on and that it was her choice to leave! we talked on the phone for a few mins and then chose we would meet. she was in hysterics she cried and cried and cried! we ended up having a pint together and talking... ( remember, were only 18 and live with parents.. so we couldnt go home ) we ended up having sex outdoors and talked more, alot more.. i nearly broke down, i still love her and she still loves me we are now back in contact and visiting trying to work a way of being as close as possible the thing is, we have a daughter, we NEED to be in contact, we NEED to be civil, for our daughter.. i just hope this time, we can stay in contact and eventually be the best joint parents in the world! im so scared it is all going to happen again though Link to comment
ToF Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 If you'd already moved on, why did you do this? What did you expect? With all due respect, I think that was a big mistake. Link to comment
Leon91 Posted July 3, 2010 Author Share Posted July 3, 2010 If you'd already moved on, why did you do this? What did you expect? With all due respect, I think that was a big mistake. because i love this person, even though me and another person are dating me and my ex are so close. i love her with every part of me and she says shes just the same i didnt make it obvious how much i missed or loved her, but she probably knows she was very upset and very down. i just want to get along with her! Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 I hope you two used protection. Link to comment
hater13 Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 why is it that when they see you they decide to contact you :S this happened with my best friend as well LOL Link to comment
ToF Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 because i love this person, even though me and another person are dating me and my ex are so close. i love her with every part of me and she says shes just the same i didnt make it obvious how much i missed or loved her, but she probably knows she was very upset and very down. i just want to get along with her! Yeah ... can you see how much is wrong with this? You're dating someone else, yet went ahead and had sex with your ex-girlfriend. WHY are you dating someone else? ??? What are you going to do now?! Link to comment
Leon91 Posted July 3, 2010 Author Share Posted July 3, 2010 Yeah ... can you see how much is wrong with this? You're dating someone else, yet went ahead and had sex with your ex-girlfriend. WHY are you dating someone else? ??? What are you going to do now?! why? because my ex left..nothing is official with the new girl just extremely close. im hoping that me & my ex get along from now on. regardless of status be it as: parents partners friends whatever.. aslong as we can just get along this time thats what needs to happen now, for mydaughter Link to comment
ToF Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 why? because my ex left..nothing is official with the new girl just extremely close. im hoping that me & my ex get along from now on. regardless of status be it as: parents partners friends whatever.. aslong as we can just get along this time thats what needs to happen now, for mydaughter So when you tell this new girl about what happened, she'll be fine with it?? Link to comment
moving Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 I'm totally confused. You're 18, you live with your parents, you have an ex with whom you've been for six years ... so you've dated since you were 12? And, despite living with your parents, you guys have managed to become parents yourselves already? Then, you've moved on within days, such that you have someone else new within two weeks, but you're not exclusive with her, so it's now okay for you to sleep with your ex-girlfriend/mother of your kid? But just not at your place, because, you know, your parents are there. Wow. Just wow. Link to comment
MalibuOne Posted July 4, 2010 Share Posted July 4, 2010 Leon91, you can see by some of the responses you're getting that your actions have people baffled, if not outright shocked. You don't seem to know what you want (get back together with your ex, move on, try to be friends, etc.) and until you do, it's really not a good idea to have a relationship with someone else and maybe put her through the pain of a breakup down the road. I'll be blunt. You're very young to be a parent. Parenting is a HUGE responsibility and should be one's first priority and though you say you want to be a good parent, having two ongoing relationships is not the way to do that. Link to comment
Cadence44 Posted July 4, 2010 Share Posted July 4, 2010 why? because my ex left..nothing is official with the new girl just extremely close. Nice. So she's a placeholder. You're 'extremely close' in that you're getting attention and ego validation from her, and she's getting the lucky prize of a guy that's going through the motions but is incapable of actually falling in love with her. But you like feeling wanted and you like that you have a back up plan or potentially someone to make your ex jealous, so you're conveniently overlooking how the new girl might get hurt, right? You need to tell her exactly what happened with your ex, and that if you had a choice you'd want to be together with your ex and hopefully the new girl will have enough self-respect to run for the hills. Link to comment
lucylogan Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 leon 91 - you need to take control of the relationship, don't put all the power in her hands! Link to comment
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