cherryberry123 Posted May 2, 2010 Share Posted May 2, 2010 My ex broke it off with me many months ago. By the end of the breakup, he started to get fed up with me. He told me he was starting to see someone new, and that's when I finally left him alone. When I asked, he could answer: -Her name -Her age -Where she works -Ethnicity Sometimes when I would contact him, he would say he was out with her at the mall or having lunch etc. or will be going out with her. He even said she invited him to her work party. There was this one time when I asked him to call me around 10pm (after his date with her). He called but hung up right away. I kept trying to contact him, but he would avoid my calls. He eventually called around 1am. I asked where he was..."I was at her house"...."doing what?"..."nothing." It shattered my heart hearing these things. I asked if she was his girlfriend..."No...not yet". When I asked how old she was, he replied "2 years older..". I was kinda surprised, "really? wow..". He got really defensive and said "you make her sound like she's so old" After the "I'm at her house" incident, I finally stop contacting him. After 2 months, he contacted me asking how I've been. We are starting to talk more frequently, and may lead to getting back together...but I really wonder about this girl... -There was no sign of her on facebook -He doesn't seem to be dating her now. When I asked about his life, he replies "School. Work. Go home..my life is boring" -He hung out with me privately recently.I don't think his "girl" will accept that Do you think I should ask him about her? It seems too elaborate to be a lie... There are 3 theories: -She never existed, and said it to hurt me -She exists, but they never dated...she was never interested -They dated and are now broken up I am 90% sure he isn't seeing anyone now. I don't know what to think of this. Thoughts? Should I ask? Link to comment
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