Boyfriend Groped Me While Sleeping

[Miss Firecracker]

Oh, I missed that somehow. I had a feeling he didn't assault you, WomanWriter. If he truly had, I know you wouldn't date him again.

[ElectricSheep123]

At this point, no one cares what he does to you. You brought everything on yourself.

[Miss Firecracker]

I would report him to the authorities. What he did was rape because you already said no & he continued to do it anyway.

 

This is all over. They are a couple now.

[iBroken]

An engaged couple

[mistygrl092]

I have two things to say. First of all, how old are these people? Anyone over 45 or 50 knows control (or has the decreased libido to prove it). People in their 20s and 30s, not so much.

 

Also, to call this rape is beyond the pale to me, IMHO, and to not minimize the experience of rape victims. But that is because I have been raped - and I had the blood and he had the scratches all over his arms. Sorry to be graphic, but that is rape. Perhaps an extreme example, but just sayin'...

 

Oh, and I guess I have one more thing to say. Do not sleep in the same bed with a man if you don't want anything sexual to happen and certainly do not shower with them. Both can lead to "trouble."

 

What he disrespectful? Sure. But men (and women) test boundaries all the times.