The_man Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 so I recently had sex with a girl that i met a few years ago, it was her idea so i went with it. Some of my friends think she is "custy" or what ever you wonna call it but i didnt think so. I told my best friend about it, because i thought i could trust him but aparently not. My other friend who dated her a few years back found out and started texting me saying how custy that is and stuff and how he couldnt beleave i had sex with her, and now more people are finding out. I wish people would stop making a big deal about it, but my worse thought would be tons of people finding out and stop talking to me about it, and i know they would I dont know what to say to people any more, and now im beginning to regrett it alot. I dont know what to do now, and i dont know what advice anyone could give me but any would be helpfull right now.. thanks Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 You like her, right? But you care about what others think more? You need to decide what is more important to you, the girl or your 'friends'. Link to comment
The_man Posted September 20, 2009 Author Share Posted September 20, 2009 it was kinda a one time thing, we decided not to date or anything like that, she doesnt really talk to me now anyways Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Custy? Just tell them you're not discussing it and shut them down when they bring it up. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Ignore what your friends say, they will get bored. I just Wiki'd the term 'custy' gross. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 The two of you had sex..that is a matter between her and you..not anyone else. If anyone else says anything to you tell them that it really isn't any of their business. Why is everyone saying she is gross and this is gross to begin with? Why did you go along with it just because she wanted to do it? I am not sure why everyone is sticking their nose into your private business. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 What does custy mean? I wouldn't let them bother you. You thought she was cute, you gave it a try, you had fun. If your only regret is being caused by other people, then those people need to find something worthwhile in their own lives to talk about. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 How about just responding, "I don't recall asking for a consultation with you on this. Thanks anyway." Then just walk on. Nobody has a right to comment on your business unless you ask them to. In your corner. Link to comment
The_man Posted September 21, 2009 Author Share Posted September 21, 2009 Thanks for all the replys. I think everyone thinks shes gross because shes dated alot of gross guys, that can be the only reason i can think of. (not saying im gross aswell lol) also, i went along with it because i wanted to as well, it was like that for a while. Link to comment
aldridal Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 link removed Ewwww..... Link to comment
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