The_man

Boogie said it dead on! exactly what i was thinking.

Ok I dont really have any problems here, I just wanted to see peoples differnt views about this. This all starts back around when I was in grade 3 or grade 4. My mother use to watch tv shows like "Everybody loves raymond" and "king of queens". And I also use to watch them with her. In many of the episodes of Everybody loves ray, it always had "Raymond" wanting to have sex but his wife was never in the mood, it seemed like every episode she was never in the mood. Which led me to think that all women didn't like having sex and never wanted to have it. It made me feel like all men were "pigs" for wanting sex all the time. And then around grade 7 grade 8 I found out that women wanted sex as much as men did. And I was very shocked. All of those years of thinking it was just men who wanted sex. Ive noticed the same thing with other shows as well. I just wanted to see differnt views from people on this subject, THANKS! matt

So what do you think the message on my myspace she left after ignoring me for a month ment?

May I add that ive known her for about 3 months and she's been ignoring me for one month.

ok thanks for the advice

Thank you for the advice! Anybody else?

Ok a few months ago I met this nice girl on a school field trip. We met on the 2 and a half hour bus ride back. She kept saying how she loved my blue eyes and stuff like that. The next day she saw me in the cafe and she gave me her msn. Then I was on msn the same night and she signed on. And she coundnt stop talking to me. She asked me if I wanted to hang out with her some time and of course i said yes. I thought it was a little odd that she wanted to hang out with me and we just met the day before. So we went downtown the next weekend and we had a great time. Anyways she would still talk to me like crazy and we would hang out during lunch once in a while and stuff like that. Then I was talking to her on msn one night. She didn't seem very talkitive like usally. So I was trying to start up a conversation. Then I got a message from one of my friends (which is also her friend) saying that I should stop annoying her. I got so pissed off! Why coundn't she just tell me herself that I was being annoying? Anyways I was online the next day and I noticed that her myspace said she was online but msn said she wasnt. Means she is blocking me. And she seemed to be ignoring me at school as well. I waved to her once and she didnt wave back or anything. She kinda gave me a smerk and kept walking. She has been ignoring me for a month now. I feel so bad and angry that she wont talk to me. Then I go on my myspace acount today and she left a message on one of my pictures saying how that I look nothing like the picture. It seemed so odd that out of the blue she talks to me again. What does this mean? Should I try to contact her? Any advice would be great!!

Hey! Ok this may be a little open ended and this may be hard to explain. Anyway, Has anyone ever noticed how some people can be so easy to talk to and some people seem hard to even say "hello" to? What I mean is, I have some friends that seem so nice and I have never had a problem when talking to them. Example: Starting a Conversation. But with some people it seems like they have bad vibes coming off them... like if you say anything they will think you are weird... Has anyone ever noticed this? And how would you get over this feeling? THANKS!!!

I was about to say that about "link removed"

i forgot about "seeing"

The Xmrth says it, seems to make more sense...

sometimes people ask me at school "are you going out with her?" but I never know what to say because "going out" might mean something differnt to them, thats why I started this thread.

I agree with southerngirl

this is a very confusing topic

I always thought "dating" was going out on a few dates and spending time together and "going out" is in a relationship; boyfriend/girlfriend.

what is the differnts between "dating" and "going out"? Just wanted to know what the differnts is! Thanks!

thanks diggitydogg, great advice

And I forgot to add, msn is the really on time I get to talk to her for more than 2 minutes, since I only really see her after class

Gggg Thanks man, i feel like an idiot now. I was just asking if it was a good idea to tell her. I properly won't even ask her out anways... Now that you put it that way...

It never go's as planed when you approach some one, I ask girls for there email address, I always expect them to not want to give me there address or say they dont have one, but it never turns out that way and they seem happy that your asking them. so far...

Id choose the shy girl

OK, Me again! I have made a couple of threads about this girl I like already. About two weeks ago, I forced my self to ask for her email address so I could add her to msn. I don't know why I was worrying so much. I tried not to think about and tried to ask for her email like normal conversation. She gave it to me, no questions asked and it wasn't okward fealing when I asked her, Which is good. I was talking to her on msn a few days later, I wanted to tell her that I like her because I couldn't take it anymore, I wanted her to know. I didn't want to randomly say I like you so I kindof started up a conversation relating to the subject. Kind of like "I bet you like so and so" In a funny way. I then told her I liked her and she thought it was just a joke she said "hahaha, all jokes " I then said "right...jokes...right" She just laughed again. She kept asking me if I like this girl and this other girl, I then said "I told you, I like you!" She replied with "oh, i thought you were joking " I told her no, and then she said that was sweet with a smily beside it. Then i said "I hope that wasn't to okward" she replied with "no it wasnt, thats very sweet " I then told her "people are right, you are a nice girl!" She said what people and put an embarresed smily. I told her a few people who said that and she thanked me alot for the compliment. after about half an hour of talking about other stuff she said she had to go and said "thanks so much for talking to me, see you at school" and put another smily beside that. Do you guys think it was a good idea to tell her i like her?? Sorry for rambling! Thanks!

thanks man, that should help, any other advice?

A few weeks ago I made a thread about me having a problem trying to get to know this girl that i liked, named Jessica by the way, thats not the problem anymore thankfully What happened was I was at the movies and there was a line up for the tickets so after I bought my ticket, I was waiting for my friend to buy his and I turned around and she was in the line too Acually my friend changed the time we were going to see the movie, if he hadn't I wouldnt seen her. That sounds like a sign to me lol. So I talked to her for a bit and it sort of broke the ice. So now we talk normaly. Now the problem is, theres another guy that likes her. Our Geography class went on a school trip. And she sat beside him. I didn't worry because I thought as just "friends". We got to the first stop on the trip and he kept asking people to take there picture because she hates pictures because she is very shy. I thought this was a bit suspishes(sorry not sure how to spell that), but didn't think much of it. On the second stop, everytime we turned a corner he would put his arm around her and sort of "direct her" By this time I knew somthing was up. And he thought it was funny when he would put his head near her head and she would move her head back. He doesn't take a hint to well. On the third stop he was talking to people and he introduced him self and said "and this is my girlfriend Jessica" and she said a very loud "NO!" It made me laugh and the same thing for other people near by. Then on the bus ride back which takes 2 and a half hours, he kept putting his arm around her and hugging her. Her friend asked her if she even liked it when he did that and she shook her head "no". He then kept asking her if she had an "innie" or an "outie" for a belly buton. She wouldnt answer and he kept asking her over and over again. One of her friends kept telling him to shut up because he was so annoying. Then I turned around from my seat and told him to shut up!!! He was driving me crazy!!!](*,) I heard him say to her I like you but she didn't say anything. He tells me he will kick my a** if I get near her, in a funny way. But I don't think its funny at all. He pretty much stalks her all day in school now, he skips class early to go to her locker at the end of the day and wait for her. I know for sure she doesnt want to go out with him, But he does, big time! How am I suppose to even talk to her with this guy beside 24-7?! Sorry for rambling on! Any advice would be great!

Today I didnt get a chance to say the hello to her but I said goobye to her in a more normal voice and she responded in a normal voice as well. I hope thats a good sign...