sanadee Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 If having sex, and your partner is very vocal (if you get my meaning is this an extra turn on for you? This sounds dumb, but i find if i look at porn, and the woman is vocal and moans a lot, this in itself is arousing. Is this weird? Link to comment
Nidania Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Nope, it's not weird at all. Some people like dirty talk. Some like hearing their partner's moans of pleasure and satisfaction. Personally, I like hearing a man when he climaxes. The louder he is, the more it turns me on You're not weird at all. Link to comment
uofagirl Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I love when my husband is more vocal. Spikes up my urge! Link to comment
Sukotto Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Noise has its practicalities, it lets you know if you're doing something right. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 If I'm not making someone scream, or if I'm not screaming, we're not hittin all thrusters. Link to comment
hers Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i am loud but i get self-conscious of it, b/c i've never really been with a guy who moans or groans a lot. one guy used to scream my name as he came, and that was awkward more than anything. the guy i was with last week was very quiet except for a little heavy breathing, but if i don't hear any voice, whether it be a groan or a moan or an "oh god" here and there, i feel self-conscious b/c i moan a lot. i don't mean to and when i try to hold it in, it doesn't work haha. so yes, some sort of voice is good. Link to comment
uofagirl Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I hate quiet. If you want me to be loud ... I better hear somethin out of you! Link to comment
jahur Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i had an ex once whos sex cry was so high pitched she could have cut cheese at 30yards!!! not quite a turn on that. on the flipside yes i find it a turn on! also the noise from triumph bonneville motocycle as it roars on by turns me on!!! Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i had an ex once whos sex cry was so high pitched she could have cut cheese at 30yards!!! not quite a turn on that. on the flipside yes i find it a turn on! also the noise from triumph bonneville motocycle as it roars on by turns me on!!! Ah, I love differences in British and American English. "Cutting cheese" for us is a euphamism for breaking wind. HILARIOUS visual there. Link to comment
hers Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 do any guys ever think that if a girl makes a lot of noise, they are faking someting? i make noise the whole time, not just coming. i dont even mean to, but i worry thtat some guys will think i'm not sincere about it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i don't like it crazy fake sounding noise, but i like some 'oh oh oh oh'. i love dirty talk too. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 No, I like concentrating. Ok, maybe a bit of talking and kissing from there but not to the point of screaming monkeys on a zoo. A softly and calm oh, oh,oh, ok, a screaming zoo, annoying... Link to comment
jahur Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Ah, I love differences in British and American English. "Cutting cheese" for us is a euphamism for breaking wind. HILARIOUS visual there. hilarious! im rolling about laughing on this one, glad you got the gist!!! Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I don't even think about it. If I need to yell, I yell. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 My vocalness is directly related to his performance. If I am more vocal, or go a little above and beyond, he can't control himself. For me, it really doesn't matter. Depends on the mood, and type of sex. Link to comment
hers Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Yes, I was recently with someone who I think was making it up - bit of a drama queen, I mean I'm not THAT good (I don't think) it kinda broke my concentration - which is super needed. Plus the noise was at a constant from the get-go...made me not want to bother using any of my special moves since things seemed to be going "screamingly" already. The over-the-topness kinda fit her personality. Now if you can make a quiet, reserved, demure woman scream then you know you're working it!! i dont scream, like ever. most of it's moans. ive noticed for me it happens almost every thrust in, even when i don't mean to do it. i make more noise when i come, but still no screaming. just a little louder, i mean. but only a little. Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I know I make some noise, but honestly not sure how much or how loud, not really paying attention to that. I do like some dirty talk, respectfully dirty.. don't insult me! And him.. Oh yeah.. he has this growly thing he does when he's gonna come.. that combined with his 'O' face and the scent... 'bout drives me wild! Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I know I make some noise, but honestly not sure how much or how loud, not really paying attention to that. I do like some dirty talk, respectfully dirty.. don't insult me! And him.. Oh yeah.. he has this growly thing he does when he's gonna come.. that combined with his 'O' face and the scent... 'bout drives me wild! so, dingy talk? lol Link to comment
jahur Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 isn't it supposed to be "cut the cheese and didn't put the knife away"? god knows? Link to comment
Nidania Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 so, dingy talk? lol LOL! I love that term! I'm pretty noisy, lots of moans etc. and I don't mean to be... it just sort of happens. Link to comment
sanadee Posted September 15, 2009 Author Share Posted September 15, 2009 Nope, it's not weird at all. Some people like dirty talk. Some like hearing their partner's moans of pleasure and satisfaction. Personally, I like hearing a man when he climaxes. The louder he is, the more it turns me on You're not weird at all. ok, that's a relief lol. i find i am vocal sometimes, if her technique is good lol Link to comment
jahur Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I already asked him/her - he/she asked me not to bother himher with trivial questions like that and that I should direct those types of questions to google or to a librarian at the public library. lmao!!!!!!! Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i LOVE noises... but nothing porn-like. I love manly heavy breathing, little grunts, the odd "ahhhh"... Mmmm! Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm a little vocal. No screaming, just moaning. I'd like to hear more from my bf so I know I'm doing something right, lol. But oh well. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Absoloutely, It freaks me out if they are too quiet. Link to comment
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