CoCo2009 Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 We met up for dinner and drinks around 6 and I was home by 9..lol It was a great date and fun..but are dates supposed to last longer? Link to comment
Knight of Hope Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 Well, dates can last any length of time, really, but it's only a bad sign if you like him and he doesn't ask you out again. Link to comment
hers Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 did he ask you out again? what did you guys do? Link to comment
Mimori Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 Dates are never an “automatic” set time. Mainly because schedules conflict, working around other events and responsibilities… As long as the date seemed to go well, and everyone left happy with talk of further communication and seeing him again, you have nothing to worry about. This is only the second date; don’t look too far into it yet. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 23, 2009 Author Share Posted August 23, 2009 did he ask you out again? what did you guys do? We went to the Victoria Gardens mall (its an outside mall) then we went to Cheesecake factory because it was the only place that wasn't packed. We had drinks and then we ate. He held my hand on the way back to the car and then when we got back he said we should do it again. Then he called me to make sure I made into my apartment safe (I didn't let him know which one I lived in yet) and then he texted me that I looked very nice when he got home. Link to comment
Portage Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 It sounds positive indeed. if there was no interest he wouldn't call and show concern i do believe. Enjoy and go with your gut. I find my gut never lies. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 23, 2009 Author Share Posted August 23, 2009 oh and he texted me "hey" today...but that was it haha Link to comment
hers Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 it soudns positive! don't overthink it! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 Sounds good...CoCo. You are moving forward...Girl! Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 23, 2009 Author Share Posted August 23, 2009 I'm really trying not to overthink it..its so hard Link to comment
hers Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 say this to yourself: "i'm doing well today! i had a nice time with a guy last night. maybe he'll call, maybe he won't. if he does, great! if he doesn't, that's ok. but for today, i'm doing well and i'm happy." get yourself in the present in order to stay out of the future. Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Sounds great Coco! I actually prefer shorter dates because it puts less pressure on you when you don't know each other well. He was also treating you with a lot of respect and letting you know he wasn't going to try to push you into bed or a heavy makeout session on the first date. That's usually a sign that he likes you and is taking your seriously and not just in a rush to sleep with you. Sounds good to me! He said many positive things to you. If he's sincere, you'll hear from him again! Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 What type of job does he work? He may have a work shift like mine. I go in at 4am. Of course, I would at least be nice enough to explain that so she doesn't have to make posts like this one, lol. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 He called me to tell me good luck on my interview tomorrow and to text him and let him know how it went...he actually remembered. image removed lol Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 What type of job does he work? He may have a work shift like mine. I go in at 4am. Of course, I would at least be nice enough to explain that so she doesn't have to make posts like this one, lol. He owns an insurance company and he had to work yesterday so I think he was kinda tired, he says that he is never up past 8 haha. Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Well there you go. Not anywhere near as bad as you thought it was. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 I hope he asks me out again! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 He called me to tell me good luck on my interview tomorrow and to text him and let him know how it went...he actually remembered. image removed lol he likes you. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I'm pretty sure that he'll ask you out again. He genuinely shows concern for your well being - i.e. calling to make sure you got home safe, wishing you luck on your interview, and letting just you that you were on his mind - even with a simple hi and if that's not enough, he went past his curfew to spend time with you (lol). I would definitely take that as a sure sign of interest. Stop worrying so much and just go with the flow. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 Aww thanks you guys....You think I should ask him out really? I'm scared lol. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 why be scared? if you like someone you can put effort in too. sex doesn't matter. Link to comment
CoCo2009 Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 Hmmm, okay maybe I will...he lives sorta far, I guess I can drive out there this time. He lives almost an hour away. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Hmmm, okay maybe I will...he lives sorta far, I guess I can drive out there this time. He lives almost an hour away. driving is why you don't want to ask? if you ask, still doesn't mean you have to drive, but i wouldn't just say 'you're driving.' lol Link to comment
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