thistime Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Hated it..hurt like hell. And he wasnt endowed so thats not the reason. I will admit that I was nervous, and not really into it, but he wanted to, and I wanted to please him so I agreed. I wasdrunk...maybe that helped, IDK. he isnt very knowledgable about it himself, tho b/c he went from anal back to vaginal, and low and behold.,..I got a yeast infection. He only tried in one more time, and it brought me to tears and he never asked again...and we broke up shortly thereafter. Link to comment
starlight40 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Yeah its a really bad idea to go from anal back to vaginal, it will often cause infections for obvious reasons Link to comment
Speranza Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Hmmm - you see, it's those words, 'One heck of an infection' which put me off... And no way would I want to rim someone... "It went in by accident" - that old one, eh? How hard and fast was he going, to be able to accidentally get right into your unprepared anus in one thrust?? I admit, it took me several years to work out that my Ex's occasional near-misses weren't accidental! Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I've only tried it once, it was ok but nothing amazing. I put that down to it being our first attempt, and me being worried that something bad owuld happen. Nothing did though, I'm fine with trying it again. Link to comment
thistime Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Not me. First guy that ever asked...last one that I will ever even consider. I have had the convo with the bf...he isnt interested. And quite frankly, I sincerely dont think it would work...he's pretty big. I know porn stars take it from the big guys all the time, but hey...their professionals!! No thanks....I guess I'm a traditionalist LOL Link to comment
dragon lady Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I tried it once because my ex got me drunk and talked me into it. I will never do it again. It was a horrible experience. I hope that I never date someone who is into this again. Sick. Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I tried it in the poop shooter with my ex. To be honest I didn't really enjoy it. I was too worried and concerned if it hurt her or not. Then the thought of poo on my penis disgusted me. Link to comment
Mia_of_Doom Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I nearly passed out from the orgasm I had my first time. So yeah, you could say that I like it. 8) HeriocFool's advice on page 3 is spot on. I also recommend experimenting with the anus by using fingers and toys before attempting sex. Just to get used to the feeling of it being penetrated and so you have a general idea of how relaxed you should get. Link to comment
Organs Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I have given anal to a couple girls before. One really liked it so she just took it and made the most of it. The other need a TON of lube and I had to stand at an awkward angle off the side of the bed to even get it in, and it wasn't really worth the trouble. Link to comment
greywolf Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 I've never tried it, but I will someday with the right person. Link to comment
misspaf Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 First time with my ex, he accidentally did it, it hurt like hell cos I wasn't expecting it and I suppose I wasn't horny enough. Second time was with my now SO, we had been having foreplay for about 3 hours, he kept teasing me with actual intercourse which made me very very horny, so when we were doing it doggy style, I was very wet, he accidentally anal'd me. He immediately apologised, only I didn't know what he was apologising for, he told me what had happened and to my amazment, I didn't feel any pain, so I told him to put it in again slowly, and it worked! No pain at all! After a few thrusts, my anus started to open up more and more and it is very very very very very enjoyable. It turns me on so much! We tried it again another time, but I wasn't horny or wet enough so it was quite painful. my advice is, lots and lots and lots of foreplay. Link to comment
acandia Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Well I have done it several times. My first serious relationship (we were together for 12 years) and hated every second of it (we did it because he wanted to). Years later my boy-friend was curious about it, so I agreed to try again. First in the shower not a big fan of that one, and then lying down on my stomach...and I really started to like it. I think it has a lot to do with who your with. Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I hope that I never date someone who is into this again. Sick. Have you ever noticed that people use the term "sick" to describe something that they don't like personally. Why is that? I just use the expression "not my thing" and let it go at that. Anyway, I don't think there's any evidence that people who engage in anal sex suffer from a sickness. My ex-girlfriend loved it, and she and I are perfectly sane (as far as we know, anyhow.) Link to comment
dragon lady Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Have you ever noticed that people use the term "sick" to describe something that they don't like personally. Why is that? I just use the expression "not my thing" and let it go at that. Anyway, I don't think there's any evidence that people who engage in anal sex suffer from a sickness. My ex-girlfriend loved it, and she and I are perfectly sane (as far as we know, anyhow.) I don't want to start an argument here because this thread is not about me. One of the definitions of the word "sick" is "deeply affected with some unpleasant feeling, as of sorrow, disgust, or boredom."- link removed This is how I feel about it. I wasn't saying anything about you or your ex-girlfriend. Link to comment
Sparkley Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I have done it with boyfriends past and present and with my husband, can't say I enjoy it much...but as it's part of love making and they enjoyed it more than me I went along with it on occassions, more hurt than pleasure. Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I don't want to start an argument here because this thread is not about me. One of the definitions of the word "sick" is "deeply affected with some unpleasant feeling, as of sorrow, disgust, or boredom."- link removed This is how I feel about it. I wasn't saying anything about you or your ex-girlfriend. I'm good with denotation, thanks. But consider your structural context when you use strong adjectives. You wrote this: "I hope that I never date someone who is into this again. Sick." The juxtaposition of those phrases invited readers to infer that you were suggesting that "someone into this" is "sick." I think we agree that that inference isn't true. (But duly note that people make comments like that on this subject all the time; I've seen people on anti-anal crusades, I swear.) Had you simply written, "I find it sickening," I'd have passed it by and never said a word. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I find it sickening. The thought of being with another person who is into it makes me want to throw up. There, is that better? I can't understand why someone would be so sensitive to one little word that has nothing to do with them. Link to comment
greywolf Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 dragon lady, I understand what you mean. I guess it's just that for some people who are into it, calling it sick could be a little insulting to them. Kinda like calling a same sex relationship sick, or someone telling you that oral sex is sick. Brownstone, if you like things that are little bit out of the norm, there's always going to be people that think it's weird so don't take it personally. Link to comment
melrich Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I can't understand why someone would be so sensitive to one little word that has nothing to do with them. Because the way you expressed it made it sound like people who practice anal sex are sick. Link to comment
acandia Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I can see where dragon lady is coming from. My ex boyfriend who was really into it pushed and pushed...it's all he ever talked about. It was a major turn off. Link to comment
greywolf Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I can see where dragon lady is coming from. My ex boyfriend who was really into it pushed and pushed...it's all he ever talked about. It was a major turn off. That has to do with your ex being an ass, not anal sex itself. Link to comment
Lights Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 That has to do with your ex being an ass, not anal sex itself. Agreed. I think with a topic like this, it's always best to be extra sensitive. People ALL have different preferences and different feelings about sexual practices. I'm sure for the people who say anal sex is "sick", there is something they do in the bedroom that isn't someone else's piece of cake! Link to comment
dragon lady Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 I think I have made it perfectly clear a couple of times now how I feel about it. Perhaps if you all feel so distressed by how one other person feels about it, then should reassess how you truly feel about it. I have never felt to need to harshly defend anything I've done between myself and another consenting person. That is my own business and I maintain the right to choose a partner based on my sexual preferences. The same goes for all of you. Link to comment
avman Posted August 27, 2009 Share Posted August 27, 2009 Knock off the personal attacks. Stick to the topic at hand. Link to comment
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