Sad...need to get away.

[mintblossom]

Met this guy...first time I talked to him, I recognized he was a player...so I ran. But fast forward a couple of weeks, somehow we get in contact on the phone. I've been talking to him for about 5 days now. I can see he's a player. I can see it...alarm bells are going off in my head like crazy. I am stressed, anxious, tense, fearful, depressed already....and I've only known him for 5 days!!

 

I have an abusive past where I was mistreated badly by men and others so I am very sensitive. Yesterday, he and I met up for the first time and we made out (which I enjoyed). But I can't let it go further than that. I worked too hard to get healthy and I'm too good for this.

 

I need to distance myself. Yet I feel sad because I am the soft-hearted, very kind, easily attached kind. It's a recipe for disaster.

 

Please...tips on getting away. I can't do this to myself. Meaning I cannot sleep with him and I cannot care.

 

I also sense some signs of posessiveness and control...even though he's into keeping it casual. What's up with that!!

 

Please give me some support and encouragement.

[Esteller]

stand up for yourself. tell your heart that you dont want to get hurt.. and you know wha you got to do.. don't be afraid think about ENA when you do it. ha and everything WILL be ok

[waveseer]

Change your number.

[mcmastor]

don't regret... if it feels akward, dont hold on... u'll find someone else, someone that wants you and only you. feel happy, because there is someone that truly appreciates you