To send flowers or not to send flowers???

[mags_7531]

Hi everyone

 

My ex broke up with me almost 3 months ago. We had contact at the beginning but the last month i have avoided all his calls and messages trying really hard to move on even tho im completely in love with him still.

 

I got a message from him today telling me his brother had their baby they were expecting. I was close with his family especially his brother and his wife. His brother is also my finacial advisor so since the break up i have seen him a few time on a business level. The last time he saw me he said how much they missed me and really thoguht i was good for my ex.

 

My question is... i really want to get flowers delivered cause im really happy for them and want them to know im thinking about them! Is it weird or out of place for me to do that?

 

Just looking for some outside perpective

[atelis]

i don't see anything wrong with sending flowers to his brother if it's something you want to do. I'm sure his brother will appreciate the gensture. We can't close off ourselves to the universe just because we broke up with one person.

[needafriend]

I think it's a lovely gesture.

Don't let your ex stop you from doing the things you want to do. It has nothing to do with him. If he thinks otherwise, that's his problem.

[NextTime]

I don't see anything wrong with sending flowers. It seems like a thoughtful and nice thing to do.

[doiiiieeezie]

send the flowers, it's a nice gesture

[journeynow]

Yes, sending flowers is a sweet gesture, and is not about your ex.