hers Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 That's good that you want to make an effort but remember that relationships aren't simple b/c all relationships have problems. So don't think that if you get in another relationship that starts having problems that you failed or you're doomed in love. Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 thanks - i am sure you're right - i guess i will follow more straightforward rules like dont fall in love with girls with boyfriends dont fall in love with girls that are friends with all of your friends dont depend on notoriously flippant/ unreliable people Link to comment
hers Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 That's better to do than tell yourself to only get in simple relationships. That's like an oxymoron. What you just wrote is much more sound and reasonable. Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 i just have this small ego problem WHY WAS I SO EASY TO REPLACE? i cant get over it Link to comment
hers Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 That's a question you don't need to know the answer to. B/c it doesn't matter. You just have to work on moving on. Asking questions you can't handle the answer to will nto help you. Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 "Told her not to contact me" Works real well, doesn't it? Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 when someone tells you how amazing you are and how much they adore you and how decent and kind and romantic and sensitive you are, and then leaves you for someone else without taking any of it back, it leaves you needing some sort of explanation, some sort of affirmation that these values are not enough, or that you dont have them. One or the other Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 "Told her not to contact me" Works real well, doesn't it? well it has worked so far for 2 days but if the past teaches me anything about the future i should expect to run into her or hear from her in 2-3 months i will endeavour not to get sucked in Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Don't pay attention to what they say, only what they do. Link to comment
hers Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 when someone tells you how amazing you are and how much they adore you and how decent and kind and romantic and sensitive you are, and then leaves you for someone else without taking any of it back, it leaves you needing some sort of explanation, some sort of affirmation that these values are not enough, or that you dont have them. One or the other But in the end, it doesn't matter what the explanation is b/c it won't help you any. Link to comment
dhjjessel Posted June 4, 2009 Author Share Posted June 4, 2009 maybe - one means i dont know myself and the other means i dont know what love is Link to comment
Mutley Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 But in the end, it doesn't matter what the explanation is b/c it won't help you any. Correct..... Link to comment
hers Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 Take the time to get to know yourself. Now's the time. Link to comment
Collapse Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 I've experienced that false hope you speak of in your original post, so I understand to some extent what you're going through. I think your decision for no contact is definitely the best. I wish you well bro. Link to comment
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