sharsachan Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 i was planned, but my brother was an accident/surprise my son was planned, but my daughter i just had was not planned at all. my husband was an accident as well, his mom was only 16 when she had him Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I was an accident for my birth mom, but I was adopted. She had me when she was 15. I had no idea you where adopted. I actually have no idea if I was planned or not. In my family we don't talk about sex much lol. Much less since my mom passed away when I was younger. I think I was planned since they had me after marriage. Link to comment
EQD Posted May 20, 2009 Author Share Posted May 20, 2009 thinking the birth of a new person--specifically one that you made--is a mistake, and something negative isnt a great attitude to have. in my options i preferred not to support it due to my own idea that it would just solidify and perpetuate that kind of outlook. gotta keep on the sunnyside of life. Link to comment
Greedy Toad Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Accidnt for me - the last outta that womb@@@ Wguch mean i wikk AKWAYS BE MUMMIES KITTLE BOY Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I was a coil baby. That says it all really lol Link to comment
Greedy Toad Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I was a coil baby. That says it all really lol R u an alien Link to comment
Greedy Toad Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 Damn, I've said too much.. LOL, i knew it!!!!! Henc ny inviisibility right now Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I was an accident for my birth mom, but I was adopted. She had me when she was 15. same thing with me...i was born in the DR..... Link to comment
jennamajig Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 I was planned. In fact, I found out later in life I was my mom's Birthday baby, meaning I was conceived on her birthday (probably more than I need to know, lol). I'm the oldest of four, and the two boys after me where also planned, but my youngest brother was being "discussed" as a possibility when my mom said "God made up his mind for us." Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 I don't understand it when people say their pregnancy was an accident. I mean, I know that birth control fails, but it does not fail that often. I think people must just be having unprotected sex without the intention of getting pregnant, but then get pregnant anyway (obviously it was going to happen at some point). Honestly though, what did you think was going to happen? And is it really fair to say that it was an "accident?" Link to comment
EQD Posted May 22, 2009 Author Share Posted May 22, 2009 I was planned. In fact, I found out later in life I was my mom's Birthday baby, meaning I was conceived on her birthday (probably more than I need to know, lol). I'm the oldest of four, and the two boys after me where also planned, but my youngest brother was being "discussed" as a possibility when my mom said "God made up his mind for us." what are the odds of ovulating right on your b-day though? Link to comment
paranoiac543 Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 I wasn't an accident but both my younger brothers were Link to comment
Nixee Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 I wasn't an accident but both my younger brothers were I can see that winning so many sibling battles right there. "Oh yeah... well mom and dad never wanted you, so NYAH! ... aww... kinda miss my brother now. Link to comment
alcide Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 I wasn't no accident, AND IF I WERE, WE BOTH WOULD DIE. If she tried using abortion technic on me lol. hahaha. I would go side ways instead on goin straight and make sure she go before me lol. Link to comment
yellowcal Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 I don't understand it when people say their pregnancy was an accident. I mean, I know that birth control fails, but it does not fail that often. I think people must just be having unprotected sex without the intention of getting pregnant, but then get pregnant anyway (obviously it was going to happen at some point). Honestly though, what did you think was going to happen? And is it really fair to say that it was an "accident?" It's considered an "accident" because even though it was eventually bound to happen, it still wasn't planned. Birth Control fails alot more than people consider. Given , yes, alot of times pregnancy can be prevented by using other means but not all the time. For me, my pregnancy was an "accident" because we were using condoms but condoms failed. Link to comment
yellowcal Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 what are the odds of ovulating right on your b-day though? It's not that "strange" for someone to ovulate right on their birthday.. My son was a 4th of July baby, ha ha.. fun stories that will come once he's old enough Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 It's considered an "accident" because even though it was eventually bound to happen, it still wasn't planned. Birth Control fails alot more than people consider. Given , yes, alot of times pregnancy can be prevented by using other means but not all the time. For me, my pregnancy was an "accident" because we were using condoms but condoms failed. I was referring to the fact that the majority of pregnancies occur when birth control is not used. These shouldn't be considered accidents in my opinion. That's like playing in traffic and then being surprised when you get hit by a car. Those that occur when BC is used are obviously not accidents. Link to comment
EQD Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 I was referring to the fact that the majority of pregnancies occur when birth control is not used. These shouldn't be considered accidents in my opinion. That's like playing in traffic and then being surprised when you get hit by a car. Those that occur when BC is used are obviously not accidents. accidents are when you werent TRYING to have a child. but it happened anyway. its not as much like traffic as it is trying to cross the road. that is, you are trying to do something inherently risky safely but may get hit anyway. Link to comment
Qut81 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 I was def an accident. My father was married to another women when my mom had me. They are still together tho..... Link to comment
yeawutever Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 I wasn't an accident but my 7 year old brother was. Otherwise I would have still have been an only child. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 accidents are when you werent TRYING to have a child. but it happened anyway. its not as much like traffic as it is trying to cross the road. that is, you are trying to do something inherently risky safely but may get hit anyway. Sorry, I don't agree with this. If you don't use any birth control and you let a guy cum inside you, regardless of whether or not you want to get pregnant, I don't think it can be called an accident. I could think of all the analogies in the world, but I'm going to gracefully step out of this conversation now. Link to comment
EQD Posted June 2, 2009 Author Share Posted June 2, 2009 Sorry, I don't agree with this. If you don't use any birth control and you let a guy cum inside you, regardless of whether or not you want to get pregnant, I don't think it can be called an accident. I could think of all the analogies in the world, but I'm going to gracefully step out of this conversation now. thats a poor representation of my point. who doesnt use protection and expects not to get pregnant when they let a guy come inside them?? its not mental specific. my example is if a person uses condoms all the time, but the condom breaks, leaks, or is ineffective and the person gets pregnant. that is an accident. and similar instances where the pill fails too. They take precautions and arent trying to have children, but it happens anyway. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Sorry, I don't agree with this. If you don't use any birth control and you let a guy cum inside you, regardless of whether or not you want to get pregnant, I don't think it can be called an accident. I could think of all the analogies in the world, but I'm going to gracefully step out of this conversation now. i second this.... Link to comment
dragon lady Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 thats a poor representation of my point. who doesnt use protection and expects not to get pregnant when they let a guy come inside them?? its not mental specific. my example is if a person uses condoms all the time, but the condom breaks, leaks, or is ineffective and the person gets pregnant. that is an accident. and similar instances where the pill fails too. They take precautions and arent trying to have children, but it happens anyway. If you read what I was saying all along, I was talking about NOT using birth control. Most pregnancies occur when it is NOT used. Link to comment
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