joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 So me and my girlfriend got back together last week, and i am planning a very romantic night for us tonight. Heres my plan and if anyone has any better ideas or just adding to my idea i would appriciate it alot. thanks Im going to make dinner for us when she gets here, candle light dinner. Then im going to ask her to go to the store for me, when she leaves im going to put rose pedals from down stairs to up stairs leading two different ways, one will lead the the bath tub filled with candles all around, the other into the bedroom. I bought her flowers as well and am thinking to put a 1 rose along the trail of rose pedals leading upstairs. anything i can add, just really want this night to be special for her. Link to comment
waveseer Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 If a man did all that for me I'd probably faint. Once I regained consciousness I'd think it was pretty cool. Link to comment
gidget1 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 If my man did that for me I'd probably cry. Hahaha. It's beautiful. Can you teach him a thing or two? Link to comment
KrazyDevil Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 well, not sure how long you were going out before and how long you have been broken up, but I would probably nix the whole bathtub thing. honestly, since you just got back together, I would wait a while before you get to intimate. i know that you have been wanting to spoil her etc, but you just dont want to jump right into something yet. i can actually speak from experience on this one. might want to take it a little slower and just have a good night between the two of you Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 i understand what your saying, we have been together for over 3 years and have a son together.. it was more of a week break rather then a break up. Link to comment
gidget1 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 I would suggest taking her to the bedroom first and giving her a nice massage with some scented oils and just generally spoiling her. That always wins me over. Then you can go to the bathtub. woo! Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Do you have satin sheets on your bed...those are sooooooooooooo nice. Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 no just regular old sheets. lol i was thinking of giving her a rose before dinner, then putting a few roses on the trail of pedals leading up stairs. First taking her to the bath tub where there will be a few more roses, then go in to the room and have the candels lit along with the rest of the roses on the bed. Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Is your bathtub big enough for two? I think that would be my perfect romantic evening, relaxing together in the bathtub. Everything else sounds great, you'll go down in the romance hall of fame lol. Link to comment
forgotten1 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 going over the top are we...i really hope its for good reason I.E. she deserves it and the break was in some part your responsibility otherwise itll come off as if your doting over her and have an overall unconscious devaluing of yourself in her eyes. Link to comment
annalisa84 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 Wow! No man has ever done anything like that for me. I once got 100 roses though Spoil her, spoil her good! Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 WOW! You are something else! What a great idea! I can't think of a thing except maybe a 2nd bottle of wine? Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 going over the top are we...i really hope its for good reason I.E. she deserves it and the break was in some part your responsibility otherwise itll come off as if your doting over her and have an overall unconscious devaluing of yourself in her eyes. That's kind of pessimistic. Why do men have to be insecure in their relationship to be romantic? That's very sad imo. Our society is way too jaded Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 That's kind of pessimistic. Why do men have to be insecure in their relationship to be romantic? That's very sad imo. Our society is way too jaded I think what he's doing is WONDERFUL! Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 I think what he's doing is WONDERFUL! I agree! More men should realise that a romantic night like that every now and they just makes a girl melt. Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 im pretty exited, just go done setting up the dining room table.. i just hope she doesnt ruin it when i ask her to go to the store for me so i can set up everyting.. i can just picture her saying come with me or why do i have to go alone.. Link to comment
Duckie198100 Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 im pretty exited, just go done setting up the dining room table.. i just hope she doesnt ruin it when i ask her to go to the store for me so i can set up everyting.. i can just picture her saying come with me or why do i have to go alone.. Ask her to go while you are doing cleanup. She'll appreciate that she doesn't have to help you . Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 im pretty exited, just go done setting up the dining room table.. i just hope she doesnt ruin it when i ask her to go to the store for me so i can set up everyting.. i can just picture her saying come with me or why do i have to go alone.. Nah.....tell her you have stuff to do in the kitchen and she'll run to the store for you! Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 thats a great idea thanks... any other ideas, im not the most romantic guy on this earth, but i do feel i thought this through pretty well.. damn i wish i had some more candles.. lol Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 thats a great idea thanks... any other ideas, im not the most romantic guy on this earth, but i do feel i thought this through pretty well.. damn i wish i had some more candles.. lol you'll be fine! Link to comment
PoisonIvy Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 This is so sweet... I hope it goes off without a hitch! It sounds like it will be a very enjoyable evening. I was actually going to post my worry that she may not want to go to the store, but you beat me to it! Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 ya i figure she wont want to so if worse comes to worse ill just say i bought a outfit for me to wear tonight(kinky outfit) lol thats the only thing i could think of so she doesnt know anythings going on Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted April 24, 2009 Share Posted April 24, 2009 ya i figure she wont want to so if worse comes to worse ill just say i bought a outfit for me to wear tonight(kinky outfit) lol thats the only thing i could think of so she doesnt know anythings going on it's gonna be great! Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 another great idea just hit me lol... have a few candles going up the stairs along with the rose pedals.. Link to comment
joethe Posted April 24, 2009 Author Share Posted April 24, 2009 i bought her a nice card and this is what im thinking of writing in it, short and sweet I love and care about you more then life itself. I really hope this night means as much for you as it does for me. Love always probably can tweak it a bit? Link to comment
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