l9grl Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 I want to stick to NC, so I'm posting here instead of picking up the phone. It's just hard tonight. I don't even know why - it just is. Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 It's hard for me every night. But it'll be worth it in the long run. Link to comment
l9grl Posted October 7, 2008 Author Share Posted October 7, 2008 Yes, for sure it will be worth it. I'm not hurting as much as I was last week. I find NC is generally harder at night, when it's quiet. Link to comment
Puo Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 The first month will be hard. It's when you make it past this time that things get better. Just let the grieving take its course, and things will get better. Promise Link to comment
jpearl Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 Get the book on Amazon called 'Don't Call That Man'. Seriously it helped me tremendously. Link to comment
rapunzel Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 You can find excerpts of Don't Call That Man on line if you Google the title and the author, Rhonda Fielding. I've been VERY tempted to CALL that MAN for the last few days. Last time around I was great at No Contact. This time I'm struggling with it. I haven't done it and I pray every day that I am strong enough to not do it. Especially since he has placed an on line dating ad...I have also...but that should be indication to me that he wants to meet other people and is not interested in reconciling with me. So what would a phone call accomplish? Or even an email? I'm most likely NOT to going to get to hear what I WANT to hear which is: I made a mistake, I miss you and I want you back. My contacting him is not going to achieve this, from everything I've learned through ENA and other websites, books, and talking to people. Besides since he lied about his age by 6 years on the dating site so he could meet younger women, why would I want him back anyway? ](*,) Link to comment
l9grl Posted October 7, 2008 Author Share Posted October 7, 2008 Thanks for the book recommendation. I'll look for it tomorrow. I found a website late last night that I've been reading at. There's some really good advice there too! link removed My exgf is "emotionally unavailable". There is nothing I can do to change that. It's all in her hands. I don't really want an emotionally unavailable girlfriend anyway! Who needs that? ](*,) Link to comment
exploding head Posted October 7, 2008 Share Posted October 7, 2008 the first couple months will be hard, but it DOES get better. take care. Link to comment
jpearl Posted October 8, 2008 Share Posted October 8, 2008 Thanks for the book recommendation. I'll look for it tomorrow. I found a website late last night that I've been reading at. There's some really good advice there too! link removed My exgf is "emotionally unavailable". There is nothing I can do to change that. It's all in her hands. I don't really want an emotionally unavailable girlfriend anyway! Who needs that? ](*,) That was a great site, funny stuff true, thanks for posting it. Link to comment
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