Puo
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Puo replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
I just wanted to say hi. I know you aren't a huge fan of christmas, but it doesn't stop me from wishing you a happy one. You're probably having a better one than I am. I just wish you would text me too. Plus, I really want my stuff back, and my friend asked for it yesterday and you never called him back. That's kinda douche. -
Day 6 NC. Helps that my ex deleted her facebook. Feeling good about today, but still wishing she would contact me. Not the best idea for keeping hope, but I also understand that things are they way they are for a reason, and I have to find ways to keep myself happy and occupied.
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Hey lovetomuch, I believe that all you should focus on is how you're feeling. You have to accept that this is the only thing you can be 100% sure on. Take that into consideration, and decide that this is a challenge worth accepting, at least for your own well being Everyone will be fine. Just believe this as true
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I know I'm doing well, because I had to remember when it started, and how many days its been. Thats a good feeling.
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I sometimes wonder if I could've done anything different. Then I realize there's no point in it at this point.
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Wow. If you told me I'd make it this long a few months ago, I wouldn't have been able to conceive it. She's in a relationship with a dude right now (3rd guy in 4 months or so), and I still get those moments where I realize "Wow, its really over." Makes me sad. These days are very boring, but at least I know I have my dignity back. Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever see her again, or if we'll ever be friends/get back together one day. But those are just thoughts, and things that I'm slowly letting go of. I was treated like crap, and I know I deserve better, even if I did make mistakes during the relationship.
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It's over a month now. I'm trying to stay away from counting the days. Still having my ups and downs, but making myself accept that its over. Right now I'm just trying to gain my confidence back, even 3 months after.