exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 I hope you die. I hope your soul burns with the guilt of what you did. I want your whole existence to reverberate with the pain that I now feel. You came into my life and just destroyed it. Built me up with your love and then ripped my heart out. Left me a empty shell. Rot in hell. I pray you get your heart destroyed. Then you will know what I feel day in and day out. The happiness in your life slowly disappearing til there's nothing left and you want to die. f you, die b**** Link to comment
brokenheart1 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 it's okay to be angry, dont' send it to him because he will know that he got the best of you. just think, he's not worth it, he's not worth it. Link to comment
younique21 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 yeah dont send that ...the best thing ive learned to do....even though it maybe hard kill them with kindness.... Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 she.. and I know she already feel guilty. I want her to HURT Link to comment
atelis Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 that would be a pretty powerful thing to send lol. Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 why shouldnt I send it? I think she needs to know how I feel. Then she will feel guilty. She NEEDS to feel guilty. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 actually if you were to send that (I know you wouldn't send it), you'll only just re-affirm to your Ex that she made the right choice in breaking up with you.... Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 I want her to hurt more than anything else. She deserves it. Link to comment
blue_dahlia Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 I see that you're still in the "angry" stage Link to comment
Karmageddon Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 By you feeling this way, she still wins. Time to move on and forget it. Link to comment
jettison Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 actually if you were to send that (I know you wouldn't send it), you'll only just re-affirm to your Ex that she made the right choice in breaking up with you.... Bingo. If you send this to her then it will have the opposite effect. The only thing she'll say to herself and to her friends and family is "See! I told you so! This is why I left him. He has an awful temper, and he's a hateful, mean-spirited person." Your little email, meant to hurt her, would actually prop her up. It would be exhibits A through Z on why it was a great idea that she dump you. So, in conclusion, if you want her to feel great about leaving you, and make sure that she gets over you FAST, then send the email. Link to comment
NR498E Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 That really is a very creative and well worded letter. I think it is great and I really like it. I wouldnt send it though. Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 ok. I just want her to hurt and feel guilty. She deserves to feel guilty. Not happiness with the other guy Link to comment
thejigsup Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 If an ex had sent me this, I would have thought, "Wow! I dodged a real nut case there. I was right to break up with this loser." True, that's what I would have thought and so will she. You do not want that. Let her think it had little or no affect on you. Then, you win. If you send this, she will most likely show all of her friends and they will all feel sorry for her and laugh at you. Again, you do not want that. Link to comment
KiCkiT Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 If sending it will help you move past what happened and help you feel closure, then by all means send it Link to comment
dogwood Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 i agree. don't send it. it won't make her feel guilty. it will just give her the power by seeing what state she's put you in. i wrote some angry emails after i brokeup w my ex, and almost sent them, but never did - and realized later it was definitely the right decision. channel your anger into something else. take up kickboxing, go to a heavy metal concert Link to comment
atelis Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 Bingo. If you send this to her then it will have the opposite effect. The only thing she'll say to herself and to her friends and family is "See! I told you so! This is why I left him. He has an awful temper, and he's a hateful, mean-spirited person." . she cheated on him and then lied about it to his face. of course someone is going to react in a mean spirited way to something like that. i think it will fill her with guilt and if it makes him feel better, then why not. exploding, i would add something like..........' i know in time i will heal and will experience happiness once again, but the guilt and shame of your actions will always haunt you' Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 She would feel guilty, I'm sure. I want her to pay for what she's done. I loved this girl more than anything. And she tore my heart out. "I only pray the guilt and shame of what you did haunts you for the rest of your life. You had true love. Someone who would have loved you forever, and you scarred me forever. f-you, rot in hell, die. Oh by the way, ask the new guy what I taste like.." Link to comment
atelis Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 lol will you send it? Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 I dont know if ill send it. Im just REALLY hurt and angry that she walked away from the real love we had. Yes there were problems, but they could have been worked out. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 Well hurt is hard to handle. God, your anger reminds me a lot of my own early on. I guess for some of us, anger is easier to deal with than the sadness and loss part of it. But if the tears haven't come yet, they will. And it's a sweet release when that happens. tc. Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 she gave up. and left me in a world of hurt Link to comment
blue_dahlia Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 she gave up. and left me in a world of hurt She may have gave up, but it's up to you to pull yourself out of your world of hurt. Use that anger to your advantage. You're a strong person, I can tell. So get your ass up, and don't let some woman continue to control your feelings. (this message is brought to you with much love). Link to comment
exploding head Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 I just dont see how I could ever love again. She demolished my heart. And im also going through the worst depression ive ever felt (for other reasons) I just have barely any strength anymore. Slept all day today. It seems like all I feel now is pain. Link to comment
GottaLetItBurn Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 why shouldnt I send it? I think she needs to know how I feel. Then she will feel guilty. She NEEDS to feel guilty. Would you feel guilty? Or would you feel guilty for a second, then realize you got the best of someone and then get a confidence boost? Don't send it, you'll just give her satisfaction, and an ego boost. Ignoring someone like that lets them know they aren't worth being chased. Link to comment
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