spazmy Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Quick poll. When does one have closure? For me, it is the day you recognize with absolute clarity how little those you love, respect you in return. That is the day the last vestiges of love leave you and you begin to walk, like Mr. Mandela, towards freedom. I write this because, I have, after one and a half years, finally reached that stage. I feel I am ready to date again and think of a life with somebody else. It was slow and painful, but I came to this point finally. I do not feel any regrets or any guilt about thinking of others any more. I wouldn't say I found myself again, as much as I found what I did not want to be or continue being. And the moment I knew this about myself, I knew there was nothing in the past for me anymore. Only the future. It is a most liberating experience -- and I assure those of you who are in pain right now, you will most definitely get past it. If I can do it, with what my ex and my crush once identified as my "passionate" nature, anybody else can. "Time," genuinely, is the ultimate healer -- the only problem though is that we can never have enough of it (time that is) ;-) Link to comment
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