ConfusedDater Posted September 5, 2008 Author Share Posted September 5, 2008 She said platonic in her email to you before you met her too or just after? Maybe she was just saying platonic in her email after to make the blow easier? No it was just in the email today to ease the blow. I'm surprised I even got a email like this after one date Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 I do have to note one thing... On some posts you call it a date. Others, you call it a first meet. Link to comment
george237 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 If I like the girl I will always kiss on the first date, no question. If she looks like she is enjoying your company she wants u to kiss her. Next time go for it Link to comment
hers Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 A one hour coffee meet up isn't a date really though. Ah well I have to go. Have a good weekend guys Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 If I like the girl I will always kiss on the first date, no question. If she looks like she is enjoying your company she wants u to kiss her. Next time go for it well said... amen to that Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 A one hour coffee meet up isn't a date really though. Ah well I have to go. Have a good weekend guys that's why i am wondering if this was really a date... i am not seeing any date like activity there Link to comment
george237 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 if girl meets guy on dating site it's a date Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 5, 2008 Author Share Posted September 5, 2008 I do have to note one thing... On some posts you call it a date. Others, you call it a first meet. Ok it was a Predate-lol Like a Pre-Pilot ep for a TV show that network executives receive when they are trying to see if they want to add a new show to the program schedule-lol Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 if girl meets guy on dating site it's a date ok whatever... CD let that girl have fun with her ex boyfriend... you just focus on your next meet-up... i mean.... next date Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 Ok it was a Predate-lol Like a Pre-Pilot ep for a TV show that network executives receive when they are trying to see if they want to add a new show to the program schedule-lol And that's fine. If I were you, I'd learn to not look too much into it when it's just one of the predates. I'm concerned that girls often tell you "I only want to be platonic friends." Why the need to specify? I do agree that things sounded good. But when looking at it as a pre-date and the fact that she was busy both this Friday and Saturday, I guess looking at that now, maybe we could have seen through this a little sooner..? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 ok whatever... CD let that girl have fun with her ex boyfriend... you just focus on your next meet-up... i mean.... next date I agree! More girls around. Have to date a ton of frogs before you find your princess, eh? Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 No it wasn't a typical Cafe, they didn't wait on you, you had to get up and go inside yourself. So while were outside sitting down she said I can go in first and get what I want so we could save our table. Then when I came back she went in while I sat outside and waited for her. So that's how we both paid for our own stuff You've got to be kidding me!!!! PLEASE, someone, tell me that he's kidding?! Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 Ok it was a Predate-lol Like a Pre-Pilot ep for a TV show that network executives receive when they are trying to see if they want to add a new show to the program schedule-lol Oh Jeez........ Now I can perfectly understand........... she basically wanted to see if she can even go out on a first date with you and hence this Predate set up.... then she came up with a convenient excuse of getting back with her ex... now i can understand why she said 'i know you want more than plutonic relationship' Man... after 261 replies you are saying it is a predate?? Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 I don't kiss on the first date, and she used the word platonic because that's the only thing that she can be at this time since she is dealing with some other guy. What the hell happened to safe adult fun, then? Eesh. Someone help me, here! Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 Man... after 261 replies you are saying it is a predate?? Think maybe so. And that's okay.... it's alright... Keep your chin up CD! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 5, 2008 Author Share Posted September 5, 2008 And that's fine. If I were you, I'd learn to not look too much into it when it's just one of the predates. I'm concerned that girls often tell you "I only want to be platonic friends." Why the need to specify? I do agree that things sounded good. But when looking at it as a pre-date and the fact that she was busy both this Friday and Saturday, I guess looking at that now, maybe we could have seen through this a little sooner..? I figured she was going out on a date tonight or tomorrow but I was ready to compete with whoever the guy was but didn't get the chance. Plus I'm too old to believe that she was going out with 2 different sets of friends friday and saturday. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 What the hell happened to safe adult fun, then? Eesh. Someone help me, here! CD has girls that he'd like to date... And if the dating world isn't going to well, then he resorts to "safe adult fun." Is that right CD? Link to comment
george237 Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 cd if your ever in that possition again say I am going in to get some coffee how would u like yours Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 We are at 272 posts for this thread...I wonder if it is a record yet for CDs threads! CD, I must say you DO get people talking! Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 I don't have those type of skills Nah kiddin'? Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 5, 2008 Author Share Posted September 5, 2008 Oh Jeez........ Now I can perfectly understand........... she basically wanted to see if she can even go out on a first date with you and hence this Predate set up.... then she came up with a convenient excuse of getting back with her ex... now i can understand why she said 'i know you want more than plutonic relationship' Man... after 261 replies you are saying it is a predate?? What the hell are you talking about? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 I figured she was going out on a date tonight or tomorrow but I was ready to compete with whoever the guy was but didn't get the chance. Plus I'm too old to believe that she was going out with 2 different sets of friends friday and saturday. I think that you gave it your best shot and you stayed positive! I think that's progress. You didn't throw the towel in - you gave her a chance and you haven't shown much negativity (not like used to.) You survived. Now time for next. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 5, 2008 Author Share Posted September 5, 2008 CD has girls that he'd like to date... And if the dating world isn't going to well, then he resorts to "safe adult fun." Is that right CD? Yeah I can always fall back on Safe Adult Fun Sports Internet Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 What the hell are you talking about? I am talking about the fact that this was technically not a date. Its fine CD... you just move on to the next. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 5, 2008 Share Posted September 5, 2008 Yeah I can always fall back on Safe Adult Fun Sports Internet Absolutely... There will be more girls and more dates! Just keep your chin up and keep learning... Next time, maybe be a little more persistent, I will get our drinks, what would you like? (It's like 5 bucks.) Link to comment
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