imtired Posted September 1, 2008 Share Posted September 1, 2008 Yesterday was my birthday and my bestfriend did not even call me. She did text me in the evening, but the day before she texted me to tell me that she'll call to wish me a Happy Birthday. I know it sounds dramatic and maybe I'm being too sensitive. But I just think that when someone tells you something they should follow through with it. It really pisses me off that she does this all the time. A part of me wants to confront her, but another part me tells me not to. I don't want to seem cheap or desparate. What happened yesterday made me re-evaluate our whole friendship. I know that when you are someone's friend you should always forgive them, but it's so hard. I know that no one is perfect, and that we all make mistakes. But things like that, just piss me off and stresses me out. I don't know what to do. I know when it's all said and done, I have to do what is right for me. If something makes me unhappy, I have to let it go and learn from the experience. I'm thinking about telling her how I feel. I'm going to ask her why she tells me one thing and do another. Why does she feel that it's necessary to tell me something and not do it? I'm also going to tell her that lying and deceitfulness has no place in a friendship. I'm going to try to be as real as possible. What do people think? Is that too harsh. How should I tell her how I feel? Link to comment
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