BlondeAmbition Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 In case you havent read my other posts: My bf of 1.5 years broke up with me two months ago, due to lots of arguing/stress in our lives, our personalities are different and would clash sometimes, but they also kept us interested/intrigued with each other. Anyways, he wrote me a letter a few days later saying that he hoped in the near future we could be friend and try to get back together. After two months of NC, I emailed him and he responded within an hour, agreeing to meet up. He said it was "great to hear from me" and that "meeting up is a really good idea." Well, we met on Tuesday...and I'm more depressed than ever He basically said the last two months have made him realize that we are too different, and that he doesn't see how things would change if we got back together. I tried telling him that I've been working on my anxiety and stress, seeing a therapist, making lifestyle changes, etc. He said our arguments caused too much emotional stress on him, and while he still loves me, he said he's lost any faith that we'd be able to successfully reconcile. He said breaks never worked in the past for him, so why would they now. I tried to get him to have a more open mind about it, and us, but he was convinced it wouldnt work. I'm so angry, sad, confused...I did NC, and it failed. I was hoping it would help him remember the good times, like how we went to Mexico and had a blast and had romantic dinner/beach cuddling just weeks before our breakup. I'm so confused and depressed Can anyone please help me on how to move on? Every breathe, every heartbeat...is pain. I can't imagine my life without him....he was the man I thought I would marry.... I still want to cling to hope that he'll change his mind down the road, after many months...but I know that's dangerous and I need to just move on. But I just don't know how he can go from being madly in love with me (all his friends would tell me so) to now just giving up completely. I don't know how to cope... it's so hard. Link to comment
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