Uriel Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Ill try to be short and sweet: Situation: me and my wife have been together for 2 years and married for 3, she goes to university (i am 23 and she is 22) and i work full time so that she can study then when she finished studying i will study and she will goto work. (thats the plan) =). WE have managed to save up about $60,000 in separate bank accounts and we live quite happy life. However i was always bought up never to pry into other people's bank aco * * * * s or open peoples mail. but my wife will always look at my bank account and my mail (including E-mail) and question me on anything she feels unresonable. For example if i spend $100 on a new xbox game she will talk to me as if im wasting money. I spend some cash at the casino with a mate again the same talk about not being responsible with money. Yet my bank balance grown by about 1.5 to $2000 a month this is after food and car and what not. I feel i am a responsible husband but do you think im over reacting? I just feel that there is no need to check my bank aco * * * * or my Post or E-mail. I think couples should have a degree of privacy. What dop you think ? Link to comment
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