Krystal_Ivy Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 So I'v ebeen having sex for a month now and it still hurts when he tries to enter. After that I'm fine. should it still be hurting? do you think it's because we're using condoms? my friend says she can't use condoms because they are dry and don't feel the same as having normaql sex. we use lots of lube but still.... Link to comment
thejigsup Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 Are you properly aroused? If you are, it shouldn't be a problem. If not, ask him for more foreplay and see if that helps. Link to comment
hers Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 how fast or slowly is he entering you? that could have something to do with the pain. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted May 19, 2008 Author Share Posted May 19, 2008 sometimes I'm not, but sometimes I am. Once it starts hurting I get tensed up and it hurts more. But I'd be relaxed if I felt no pain at first Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted May 19, 2008 Author Share Posted May 19, 2008 he goes in pretty slow. Link to comment
hers Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 Here's what you can do--have him lube up pretty well at first, and then just plunge it in there (not like a jackhammer or anything, but not so incredibly slow either). It actualy feels good to me that way!! Link to comment
rocio Posted May 19, 2008 Share Posted May 19, 2008 Depending on how you guys fit together, that could be normal. It's still uncomfortable for me after 3 years and pushing a baby through there, so yeah, get used to it. Do you guys do much foreplay to get you ready? It might help if he performs oral sex on you first. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted May 20, 2008 Author Share Posted May 20, 2008 AH! that sounds scary! Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted May 20, 2008 Author Share Posted May 20, 2008 Depending on how you guys fit together, that could be normal. It's still uncomfortable for me after 3 years and pushing a baby through there, so yeah, get used to it. Do you guys do much foreplay to get you ready? It might help if he performs oral sex on you first. yeah, he does oral, but still. 3 years and a baby? wow! Link to comment
Valina Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 Sounds like I'm the only one who thinks this, but the entering part is one of my favorites Link to comment
rocio Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 yeah, he does oral, but still. 3 years and a baby? wow! yup, sometimes bigger isn't always better. But, on the plus side, he makes me come every time, and that took alot of work for any of the men who came before him. So I'm not complaining. Link to comment
Krystal_Ivy Posted May 20, 2008 Author Share Posted May 20, 2008 that's another thing. I can't come what helps that? Link to comment
rocio Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 lots and lots of masturbation - exploring with yourself and a dildo. And then take control when you're with him and just do what feels right. And being in love helps. Link to comment
Taylor527 Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 You are fine - I remember the first about 20 times I had sex it hurt getting in but once it was in it was fine. Are you having sex everyday? The longer in between times the longer it will take to get use to it. Just give it time - before you know it you will be a pro. As for the coming - girls usually get off by clitoris stimulation and not only sex. So play with yourself while you are having sex I'm sure you will enjoy it more. Oh and EXPLORE! Link to comment
Tulip 128 Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 Sounds like I'm the only one who thinks this, but the entering part is one of my favorites mine too!! Link to comment
EQD Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 you are just anticipating the pain and tensing up. take every single penetration slowly until you feel your muscles relax. foreplay also helps the relaxation. it may take a while, even years to overcome it. Link to comment
Taylor527 Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 you are just anticipating the pain and tensing up. take every single penetration slowly until you feel your muscles relax. foreplay also helps the relaxation. it may take a while, even years to overcome it. yeah, I've been having sex for 6 years and still have that problem if I'm not aroused enough or not wet enough. Link to comment
EQD Posted May 20, 2008 Share Posted May 20, 2008 yeah i am going on 5 years now. its improved 80% though. Link to comment
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