xblondyx Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I was just in a totally bad mood before with stuff going on. And i did something really truly nasty. I know of this girl, who cheated on this guy. And I was being wound up about it and i got so annoyed... Anyway I made a fake facebook account and sent this guy a message telling him his girlfriend was a cheat and a flirt. I immediately felt really bad, i dont know them and had no right to send that. So i then sent another message to him apologising saying i got the wrong person (his name is common) and i hoped i hadnt caused any problems. I feel so bad, i know i did wrong but at least i put it right yeah? thoughts anyone? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 Do you usually do evil and cruel things when you are in a bad mood? You didn't even know the parties inolved and you did this anyway? Were you cheated on in the past and now you feel vendictive against other cheaters? Link to comment
xblondyx Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 no i dont usually do things like this. but this girl was flirting with my boyfriend, and other guys the other night and it made me really mad. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 oh, so this was you being territorial? It was still wrong. Don't mess with other peoples relationships. You didn't do it to help him out, you did it to get her into trouble. Link to comment
CandyKins Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 I don't think it was bad as you may think. I wouldn't what you did was heroic. It wasn't of good intention, because you were in a crappy mood. Even if you weren't, it still wouldn't be of good intention. This is because you would talk to her first then decide if you should tell him or not, of course thinking really carefully and keep in mind he doesn't deserve her and it is unfair to the relationship. Basically, doing the right thing, even though it may not come a good outcome. What's in the past is in the past for a reason. To forget about and move on. You shouldn't given him the burden of her past, because he could feel unsettle. Even if she is not the same as before and is totally different. It wasn't a very nice thing of what you did. I think you should just leave it and forget about them. Link to comment
xblondyx Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 i know it was really wrong. i feel so guilty now. that kind of guilt that stays with you and worries you "what goes around comes around" kind of thing....and now something bad will happen to me for doing that Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 So wait, some other girl is a *confirmed* cheat (you've seen it with your own eyes) and you know she did more than just flirt (which, in my opinion, is fine - flirting with intent ain't so great...) with other men? You know for a fact that she cheated? If that is the case, well, tough beans for her. I'd give her the old middle finger. However, if you DON'T have any proof, and saw nothing inappropriate (such as a hand down your boyfriends pants, or her giving you the old evil eye [as in she's trying to screw your relationship], or that kind of idea) then yeah, you were out of line. Trust nothing you hear, and only half of what you see, and you're going to be well off. Short of that, don't stick your nose in other people's business. Link to comment
xblondyx Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 i think ive pretty much been told off. at least i tried to put it right though. can it all be forgiven and forgotton do you think? Link to comment
lillie Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 It seems to me that you really sunk to a great depth doing something so calculated & destructive to someone you hardly know. Are you more afraid of the what goes around comes around thing,or her retaliating,or your place on the moral ladder? No one is perfect & we certainly do make mistakes especially when we are young. But for your sake & everyone who knows you/will know you in the future's sake please learn from this & think hard before you do something like it again. x Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 You know you did something really cr@ppy, you know why you did it. It's done, take your lesson and move on. We've all been there, you aren't going to a special hell reserved just for you Link to comment
PocoDiablo Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 i think ive pretty much been told off. at least i tried to put it right though. can it all be forgiven and forgotton do you think? Time heals all. I highly doubt anyone on this forum has done NOTHING they were ashamed of. I've done plenty of things that, looking back, were pretty lame. Learn from your mistakes - that's how life works. And don't beat yourself up too much - we all make mistakes (often the same ones over and over!) Link to comment
Diggitydave Posted March 13, 2008 Share Posted March 13, 2008 The best part is you know you did it wrong, it'd be worse if you pretended you didn't do a thing. This is GOOD! Ok, have you learned your lesson about....whatever it is you feel you needed to? Link to comment
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