Fox1198 Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I know a few girls, and many of them insinuate they could be bi-sexual or turn bi-sexual out of curiosity. However I think it's mostly a load of crap that women use to tease guys, or warn them with. Kinda like, "you better treat me nice, or I might lose faith in guys altogether and turn lesbian." So what are the REAL ways you can tell if a girl could be bi-sexual? Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Your thinking is as fuzzy as could be. Why would a girl declare that she was bi when she wasn't, when she could just say, "Treat me nice, or I'll find a better guy?" So what are the REAL ways you can tell if a girl could be bi-sexual? And that, really, is unworthy of an answer. Link to comment
EQD Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 women are stupid.. but i dont doubt that their are some out there who will say things like that... *spiteful* Link to comment
RayKay Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I am sure many of them do it to "turn guys on". When I was still really young - 18 or whatever - and still went to the bar, I remember they used to have a makeout contest near end of night...generally it would girls whom entered with other girls. Sure it turned some guys on....whether it led to anything who knows. Personally I think doing it for attention is trashy and a turn-off but what do I know... I also think many of them are honest about being bi-curious, particularly if these are younger women still going through figuring out whom they are, and all that. Your hormones at that stage are all over the place and love is very confusing! It is common to have a crush on someone you are very close too like your best friend (female) as at that point love for your friend can feel like "more than love", but not necessarily be bi-sexual in the long run, but it does have you wondering if you are or aren't gay/bi-sexual. And there are indeed those out there whom may turn to being lesbians or bi-sexual after years of being "straight" - they may have been bi-curious & never acted on their feelings...but I think this is often less of a "I lost faith in guys" as it is "I found a woman I really like". There is one branch of feminism (there are many many different degrees and this is not a branch I agree with as I think you can be a feminist and love & respect men too!) that does have more hardcore believers be lesbian - but I suspect this is because they probably were either gay or bi-sexual in first place...not because they were straight and decided to force themselves to be with women. Link to comment
Raiden Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 women are stupid.. but i dont doubt that their are some out there who will say things like that... *spiteful* Only immensely immature ones who, consequently, aren't worth the time of day anyway. Link to comment
EQD Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 Only immensely immature ones who, consequently, aren't worth the time of day anyway. i find that for every fool to lie there is a fool to listen. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 women are stupid.. but i dont doubt that their are some out there who will say things like that... *spiteful* Women aren't stupid. Some women are stupid, but women aren't stupid. Ask them. I'm bi. I'm emotionally and sexually attracted to both genders. If someone uses it as a ploy, they're aren't bi, they're playing games and making it harder for people who actually are bi. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 1, 2008 Share Posted March 1, 2008 I've never known anyone to say that to snare a guy. How old are you? If you are college age, yeah, a lot of people experiment. Guys are less likely to admit it though. A lot less likely. Link to comment
Lucy__lou Posted March 2, 2008 Share Posted March 2, 2008 I am a bi woman. I once had a boy tell me he didn't believe me when I told him I was. Since then, I'm very reluctant to tell any guy that I'm bi. I don't know why it's so difficult to believe. And the double standard is funny too. All a guy has to do is suggest he may have bi tendencies and BAM! the world starts declaring him gay. It's hilarious. Anyway, if I was a straight boy, I would not be so focussed on whether or not a woman was genuinely bi ( I think most women have it in them to be bi, but many don't desire to go there), I would be more concerned with whether the girl was into living the hetero lifestyle or not. (i.e. if you had a potential place in her dreams and desires). Link to comment
EQD Posted March 3, 2008 Share Posted March 3, 2008 Women aren't stupid. Some women are stupid, but women aren't stupid. i didnt mean all of them. just the ones who make up stupid stuff like this to get attention. i came out as bi when i was 13.. well.. so did half the girls in my middle school. 90% of them were just seeking attention. i on the otherhand wasnt bluffing.. so i got the "well you just want attention" speech, and i would say "no, THEY want attention, i am who i am." women confound me with their silliness and materialism, the girls who arent like this.. i can stand them. Link to comment
lukeb Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 women aren't stupid but this thread is. Link to comment
Puma Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 i didnt mean all of them. just the ones who make up stupid stuff like this to get attention. i came out as bi when i was 13.. well.. so did half the girls in my middle school. 90% of them were just seeking attention. i on the otherhand wasnt bluffing.. so i got the "well you just want attention" speech, and i would say "no, THEY want attention, i am who i am." women confound me with their silliness and materialism, the girls who arent like this.. i can stand them. And that's what pisses me off. Fake bisexuals who put on a display of bisexual behavior for straight people's amusement are contributing to, if not one of the main reasons, for bisexual people not being taken seriously in their sexuality. They let their 'bisexuality' be fetishized, without ever having to or intending to go through having an actual same-sex relationship in the world at large. The whole 'all bisexuals are hot' thing goes back to the common stereotype in a sort of round-about way, that: "all bisexuals are sl*ts, hence sexually experienced, hence hot." Using the sexual orientation of a group of people you don't even belong to will piss me off no matter what you sex are. Link to comment
Lucy__lou Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 They let their 'bisexuality' be fetishized, without ever having to or intending to go through having an actual same-sex relationship in the world at large. so well put Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I know a few girls, and many of them insinuate they could be bi-sexual or turn bi-sexual out of curiosity. However I think it's mostly a load of crap that women use to tease guys, or warn them with. Kinda like, "you better treat me nice, or I might lose faith in guys altogether and turn lesbian." So what are the REAL ways you can tell if a girl could be bi-sexual? Agreed 100%. ANd i see this on this forum and other similar ones, as well as real life, all the time. SO my question is, what is the main reason you are wanting to find this info out? Are you wanting to pursue a bi girl? Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Your thinking is as fuzzy as could be. Why would a girl declare that she was bi when she wasn't, when she could just say, "Treat me nice, or I'll find a better guy?" And that, really, is unworthy of an answer. I think his OP was very spot on.....young women claim bi all the time for attention. You have your Lucy Lou's out there who you can tell are completely bi...others, not so much. Link to comment
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