What's wrong with sending your ex flowers on Valentines Day?

[motguy]

Thanks everyone for your opinion/advice! I won't be sending flowers but instead maybe a 3 word email if at al that!

 

Guess I'll just go back into NC and heal some more and who knows, maybe she will decide to contact me someday! It won't be easy but I need to give it another try!

 

Thanks again,

Motguy

[AngryHeart]

^Good for you!!! It's the best thing to do

[annie24]

glad to hear it - get yourself something nice instead with that money you would have spent on flowers.

[motguy]

stop right there man lol.

i did the exact same thing (being to clingy), and it didn't better my friendship/relationship/watever you call it with my ex.

 

what she sounds like she needs is time/space. for the love of god, dont send those damn flowers! stop emailing her, stop messagin her, stop txting her, ignore her and accept the fact that you two are broken up. things might change in the future, but for now thats the cookie and you need to eat it.

 

i garentee she will have alot more respect for you if you just dont talk to her and wait for her to talk to you (believe me, she will).

 

This is great advice! Out of all the posts yours hit home w/me more! You've given me direction and also that there could be hope for me in the future!

 

Thanks,

Motguy