watupgangsta Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 ok well this girl texted me earlier hinting that she wanted to have text sex.. i have a couple questions. first, i've never really done it but i want to, what kind of things should i be saying? ie how should i start, how explicit to get, etc. second, we were talking online and teasing each other and i brought it up, and she was like "if you're lucky" i told her i was feeling lucky haha... anyway i wanted to end the conversation so i was like "well i'm gonna waste my time elsewhere, maybe i'll go out looking for 4 leaf clovers or something" (for those of you who don't get it, they're a sign of good luck). she was like "if you find one send a pic it will be worth your while." ...so obviously im not gonna go out and find one, but i was thinking of drawing a picture of one with a note like "hey... who would have guessed?" and then i'd send a picture message to her of it over my phone. would this be cute or would i come off as over-eager? Link to comment
m12988 Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 i think it'd be cute. About text sex though, i'm not sure, i never done it before. All i've heard of was phone sex and to me phone sex might be better than text sex lol. Link to comment
toshiba Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 Aside from the fact that I'm really glad that I'm not a young person in today's world after hearing about this practice of text sex, I would send her the picture. Then I would stop the messaging and ask her out and bring this relationship into real life. Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 Aside from the fact that I'm really glad that I'm not a young person in today's world after hearing about this practice of text sex, I would send her the picture. Then I would stop the messaging and ask her out and bring this relationship into real life. i agree - text sex sounds really lame. yes, i would also send her a picture and ask her out in person. and then maybe you can have real sex with her someday. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 30, 2008 Author Share Posted January 30, 2008 lol we both want to but shes away at school right now so i don't really have the option of seeing her until spring break. also i agree that text sex sounds kinda lame, but it was her idea and i guess its in her comfort zone. and i think i could get off on it anyway haha Link to comment
Samedy Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 What is the difference between text-sex and cyber-sex? Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 i think cyber is on the computer, and text is by texing on your phone. both are lame, imho. Link to comment
Samedy Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 I find it hard typing a normal everyday text... Having text sex probably isn't any easier Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 I find it hard typing a normal everyday text... Having text sex probably isn't any easier that's how i feel. a lot of effort for little payoff..... Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 30, 2008 Author Share Posted January 30, 2008 yeah.... i get that. but any suggestions? Link to comment
Censored Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 i agree - text sex sounds really lame. yes, i would also send her a picture and ask her out in person. and then maybe you can have real sex with her someday. I agree. Make a way to make it. Fun for all. Remember though, play safe Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Text sex? am I the only person who doesn't get turned on by reading words off of a phone? Ok, maybe if I know it's going to lead up to something but.. ack! this is a new one to me. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 it would probably wind up going down online. i don't know if shes really expectig to get off or just be amused.... thats what i was trying t find out here. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 text sex and cyber sex can only be good if it's just flirtation that is going to lead elsewhere (IE to the bedroom Link to comment
Ashleigh_n_TN Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 actually... my boyfriend and i have text sex all the time.... he texts me what he wants to do to me and i do the same to him.... we get off on it... and it sure does spice up our long distance relationship... so anyways.... go for it!!! its fun!!! and as far as what to say.. just say what you are thinking... and what you want to do... it will all go well.. Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 thanks ashleigh, now at least i don't feel like a complete weirdo. and thank you definitely for the pic, i ended up drawing one and sending it though... haven't gotten a response yet. i guess we'll see how it plays out. lol anyway i guess what im wondering is if should i start out slow, im assuming so. and how long should i go before i start getting into it Link to comment
SinfullySweet Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 She actually said she wants to have text sex? I've been dating someone long distance for over a year and we'll send suggestive texts or pictures, but it's more naughty texting than text sex. I think you just have to start out flirty and see how far you're both comfortable taking it. The picture sounds cute! Link to comment
watupgangsta Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 alright well like i said it was her idea... i'll probably let her take the lead and just feel out the situation. Link to comment
Samedy Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Text sex? am I the only person who doesn't get turned on by reading words off of a phone? Ok, maybe if I know it's going to lead up to something but.. ack! this is a new one to me. Yes, and what happens when they start using IM short-hand that you don't understand... they send you WERDFG... and you're sitting there with your pants down thinking.." * * * ?" Link to comment
Kantriakhor Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 I hope yo both have verizon or some form of free texting....... Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 i think this text thing will lead to some really hot business between the two Link to comment
someguy88 Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Sex messaging is great! I do it all the time as means of building the anticipation and it works like a charm. I love it when my GF texts me out of the blue and tells me she's hot for me. Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Text sex is very, very, very common these days and super fun!!!!!!!! Go with the flow...it will come naturally to you. She probably has done it before and can lead you in the right direction. Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Oh.....and it has a grand possibility of leading to the real deal. Mine did!!!! Link to comment
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