Lone_Ranger

Shy? My Gf is a very shy person also, she took abt 1 month to hold hands with me comfortably..... At the beginning of the relationship, i really thinks she don't have feelings for me just trying to try out with me..... When i went after her the taught of she likes me too never cross my mind, but when suddenly i ask her to be in a love relationship, she say yes..... It's kinda un-healthy actually, I always felt 1-sided N wants to leave her but when i ask her whether she really wants to be with me, she very firm with her ans.... so we ended to be still together cos i don wish to hurt her.... But i felt like not being showered with care N love..... It's takes time but don take it too lightly.....

Just let Her go, since she can't seems to appreciate u, just let her go...... Try To love urself than any1 else.... bitches they come they go.... It time to get urself some1 who could treasure u.....

I Will Move On Dude.... I in fact i don even wan any gf now... i am happy with the way i am... i think i sld be contented that she treat me the better than other guys.... I will give a try to any girl that come my way, provided i must like her also... I onli will re-consider abt her if she really likes me and tell me that she wants more than being frens... this kinda things u can't be pushy... i been in this situations many times... i failed in first 2 attempts where i kept persuing that person, then they can't treasure me until i'm gone.... the 3rd 1 i just keep my cool and let her chase me.... looks like reverse phycology is better for girls... but if they don go after u forget it.... at least u've tried and become much wiser... I won get emotional again abt a girl.... frankly after having many Gfs and being hurt so many times, it's harder to like/love some1 fully.... but u'll be much wiser.... As for now i just be frens with her.... and as far as i noe, there will never be best-frens between a girl and a guy.... just like if ur bf/gf say they have a very close fren from opp sex, if u think u wanna share ur bf/gf.... let them be much more closer and see what's happen.... THIS IS LIFE

i Copy This Straight from What I chat with her on MSN... I meet up with her the next day to talk abt us And she says da same things as in the chat also... no difference... My Fren treated u as my good fr n i'm not fully prepared to having a new bg rltship yet, I Am too Shock To Say ANything else.... Me also actually not prepared , but i like u, i like u but i think i don wants any relationship.... my heart say want, my brain say " don be stupid k?" so I donno ler... then my frens say i don need to be scared to go to another relationship alrady, and let's past be the past.... i actually just wanna found out more abt u as a fren first but i mean start to date to see how it goes not like... I don really wants u to be my gf now My fren u no need 2 care abt wt ur fr say..... if u dun want 2 start a new rlship, is ok... y u so obedient ME lah.... i try not to follow them lorz... MY motto now is actually "No WoMeN No Cry".... but sometime i just can't seems to control my feelings... it seems like i sld go back to my old ways lorz... But u just can't stop ur self from liking some1.... My Fren u know.....i'm not prepare 2 start a new rlship yet...... some more my family's things( Her DaD died 3 weeks ago), gave me a lot pressure n sch work also....... n i really shock when i receive ur 1st msg, i tot is a joking forwarded msg only.... Me not forwarded lorz... kk don wanna pressure u so much ... like i said, i also not ready for another relationship also.... Just wait and see how it goes... If u don really want anything i guess i just need to move on... spend everyday with my sec sch frens and don ever think abt BGR anymore... Actually if u asked me to wait, I'll wait.... i not that desperate to have any GF.... My Fren it, that not forwarded msg.... wah... Ur Poem is soo gd so i taught it is a forwarded msg... is my problem now.... the 1st thing is i never think on abt it b4 (unprepare) then now 2nd yr, very tough, feel like concentration on my studies & moreover i hvn't adjust my feeling yet as my father's death... i can't so selfish that to ask u to wait...... n whos know the future things, maybe few mth later, u no long hv crush wif me, right.... it may be happen... ME worry ler, i liked u from 1st day of sch when u still having that long hair of ur's and still do.... i think if u don wan it now, it also good for me cos i need to be happy and enjoy myself also after just broking up.... altough i am after gretel already, i still feeling hurt abt wanna go to another relationship, just that my feeling towards u is too stong for me not to say it out to u..... My Fren is better 2 relax n enjoy ur life after the broke up...... single life is better... 4 me, now.... anyway i still consider u as a gd fr lol....i never hv a thought 2 hv BGR now.... so is not ur problem , juz i'm not prepared now.... Any Ideas Where We Are Heading to? Is THis Just Some InfaMOus ReJecTiOn LineS? Sld I MoVe On oR WaIt And try To SpeNd MoRe TiMe WiTh HEr???

I AM the same situation as U but i've told her that i like her. just 4 days ago. She was so shock and say decide anything. she said she never thinks abt having BGR for so long. and her dad just died 3 weeks ago. I think just say that i care for her and will wait and stuffs as she the onli who can take da vacancy in ur heart and stuffs. she say that it will be so selfish of her to make me do that but she donno what da future may brings. Just show her that u care for her and not lust that u have for her. I used same tactics to be with my EX. This should not be so much differet i guess. girls usually gets all soft-hearted by kindness and secureness to noe that some1 to be by her side when she is in need. So now just tell her and ask her out. if after telling her, she don wants to go out with u just forget abt it and move on there's is a lot of girls out there dude. and there many girls like her also. it just the matter how u strong u are? girls will look at u in a new view after u told her that u like her. maybe at first she don have feelings for u but may do later? but as frens she sld noe u well enough, sld not took too long... don worry, if she the type that treasure frenship she won forsake this frenship just becos u like her.... if she do, she's not even a good fren so time to get urself a new worthy fren. Look on the bright side of life.... GUTS is all u need to woo a girl, other qualities is just bouses but don show her that u are desperate for her... girls don like that... girls like independent guys and can think instead that stupid guys who can't control their emotions..... GD LUCK!!!

I noe and liked this girl for 1.3 year already. I do have a Gf in between. I just told her my feelings to her. She said she just to shock to say anything. She say she have not thing abt having a BGR for so long already and this comes as a shocker. her last relationship is 3 yeas ago. she also said that her Father death is still making her feelings unstable. her father died 3 weeks ago. We seems to be able to get along very well. After noeing this, she did act differenly in sch ( which she deny when i ask her ). But i wan to meet her to talk abt this, we talk so engrossedly as normal. She asked why i decided to tell me after 1.3 year? i said i think and told myself it's either now or never. She said she don wan any relationships now but donno what da future may brings. when i ask her so she wants me to wait for her? she reply, it will be so selfish of her to do that and maybe i won like her already after months later. i say i will still like her and just wait and see what happens next? she still confused now or what? don have any gd way to reject me? when parting i tell her just come to me and say hi and talk in sch as per normal. she reply "no problem, next time can meet her outside and talk also like i did today". I reply "maybe? see first if got da opportunity then maybe"

Hie, I like this girl. The Good Signs she shows is 1) She Likes to turn back looking at me altough i sit behind her 2) She start to wear ring on index finger after 2-3 weeks i started wearing a ring on my index finger 3) She would talk abt us wearing same colour shirts if we do 4) She loves to ask whether i still going out with my Ex or any other girls and asking who i like- Almost every week 2-3 times 5) She likes to mirror my body langguage 6) She tell me all her "secrets" to me and told me not to tell others although to me it is just some minor stuffs 7) Msg me out of the blue 8) she forward e-mail to onli 3 person, 2 of her best frens and me onli 9) She likes to laugh when i am talking which don seems funny to me 10)She likes to come and hang around with my buddies and stand beside me Bad Signs is 1) when i ask her out she always have plans- total 3 times, once cos have to pack shifting house da next day, second is her new house painting day, third is her new funiture in coming that day and i finally gave up.... she ask me out da next 2 week but i am busy 2)I ask her to go swimming, she say she is shy to go swimmnig with guys 3) she don talk much to me in school, when she comes to my buddies, my frens ask her too many question and have no time to talk to me. but when she see me alone she will come and talk to me. 4) She never called me 5) 1 time when she tease me over Msn Chat that this girl who likes me is not bad, can consider to be my gf- I shot back that she also not bad, and i can also consider her. she said if i like her, she can't stop me but there are other girls who will suit me better 6) She ask me again who i like now???, after i told her that don talk abt my EX already cos she da history and i've moved on already. I ans Her back "U". she just smile and laugh. Plz Gimme at least 3 replies and i decide to go after her or forget her and move on...

I noe this Girl for 1 year 3 months. I just start to have a liking for her from last 2 months onwards as i find that she have very good character. we are close in sch until my frens started to tease her and me. From then on i never approached her in sch. But her attention towards me start to increase after she do her routine of asking me who i like, i told her that i like her character and looking for that sort in a Gf(over msn chat) . She ans back If u liked me i can't stop u but i think A and B suits u better then she laugh. A and B is the girls who have crush on me in sch. I started to lose confidence and told her that i wanna stay single now anyway. she asked me izzit b'cos i can't get over my ex? she always try to disturb me all the girls who have crush on me and my EX. i broke up 4 months ago. She used to tell me that she don wan a relationship cos it is troublesome, but that night she told me that she still believe in relationship and won mind getting into 1. but i told her that i not ready for a relationship at least for another 2-3 months. from thaT day onwards her attention towards me increases, she would sms me out of da blue.that wednesday she sms me, the day that we don see each other as there's no lesson. she never did this before. she started to come and chat with me in sch. Her frens also is getting close to me which i don really like cos i like to be alone in sch or with my male buddies. but she don sms me everyday. she also start to share her life stories with me but tell me not to tell any1. i seldom stare at her so i donno if she got stare at me in da lecture. she laugh at my joke which i said out without intending it would be a joke! But when i asked her out, she always seems busy. When i ask her to go swimming, she said that she seldom swim with guys( and the fact that she don like going out with guys ). altough her reasons seems valid i still not confident abt it cos it been 4 times that i been rejected to go on dates with her. once she asked me out when i am busy and onli once.The Stopping factor for me is when after i told her that i like her, she told me that A and B would suit me better!!! And that time i really thinks i don wan any realtionship so i don ask her what she thinks of me( i just wanna tell her if there any1 i would ever consider to go into a realtionship with again, it is her: as also to stop her from asking me question of which girl i have feelings for now over and over again) ..... so now plz conclude this for me dude.... thanx...