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First of all, he's not REALLY looking at Mariah Carey, Jennifer Lopez, or Angelina Jolie. They're just look alikes or computerized pictures. Secondly, it's totally normal. It allows him to get off when you aren't able to do it for him. I had the same problem with one of my old boyfriends...and if you don't make too big of a deal about it then he won't be as interested. Kind of ironic, but true. Try not to think about it...I mean, he can't even see J Lo or Mariah Carey or whoever in person...and as long as he isn't cheating, Who's it hurting? No one. You'll still be his number one because you're there...he can hold you and touch you, and that beats any picture you can stare at. If it REALLY REALLY bothers you, explain to him calmly why. If he gets defensive or tells you that you aren't worth stopping, then he isn't worth your time.

First off, if this guy is the one you want, then forget about the other guys. Stick it out...I've been there. Maybe he just hasn't found the perfect time to do it...and he's waiting. Give him the opportunity...make alone time so that he cannot resist. If he really likes you, he'll do it. Otherwise, maybe he's against relationships. If he doesn't do it within the next week or so, talk to him about it. And if not, hey this is the 21st century...ask him yourself! A lot of guys dig that.

Don't be afraid to dig in. The sensation of a tongue against the clitoris is amazing...flicking your tongue over it and gentally sucking on it can do wonders. That's about it.

I swear I have no feeling in my vagina. In fact, sometimes it hurts to be touched. However, when I do orgasm clitorally, I can feel my g-spot in my vagina...but then I'm unable to find it other times. What can I do about this?

I have not yet started a real relationship with this 29 year old man as of yet, however, things have progressed rapidly and I am very confused. As far as our personalities go, we match. Our maturity levels are actually not far off, because I am and always have been mature for my age. He, on the other hand, is slightly immature for someone who is 29. He is, however, a responsible adult and a wonderful father to his four year old daughter (he is unmarried; he was divorced three years ago). We are part of a close knit circle of friends and I have known this man for several months. The only problem that we have is our age difference. I will be 18 in three months, and a sexual relationship will not occur until I am AT LEAST 18 (this has been discussed with him). I get along wonderfully with his entire family, as he does with mine. I'm looking for opinions on this matter, because all of our friends are totally for us getting together. Please respond with any advice that you may have.