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Yea it sux though, i cant go to school or work because of recent surgery...kinda limits my "gettin around" only 1 more month 420

Sounds like to me he has some interest...I dont think he would ask ?'s like that for fun, i know i wouldnt..and i happen to be falling for my best friend as well, hey...he might feel the same way u do but he just dosnt want to come straight out and "say it" so instead he kind of hints at it. I think you should just bring up the idea of you 2 together and go from there. I mean the worst that could happen is he says no, wish is an unlikly outcome i think here... By the way how long ya'll been friends (if its been a while then deffinatly go for it, what u got to lose)? Keep us posted babe! 420 0X

Well Genisis, i am not that "swimming guy," and it so happens she called me an hour or so ago (is this normal, when she calls i feel an overwhelming sense of butterflies or something). It seems to be at night more than during the day when she calls. Everything sounded and felt like normal...normal being she being attracted to me....i REALLY think that she likes me and is just to afraid to commit...to be honest, im a bit scared to. But i think after that first "real" kiss it will be a whole nother ball game. Oh did i mention that she came up to me after i had hung out with her for a while and kissed me right before i left, no not like a passionate kiss ( or maybe it was ), but still. Dont know if that means anything, but i think its a +...Well, 420

Thats what i was thinkin. That is pretty screwy ... any other suggestions? If not i guess i will talk to her bout it tomorrow and keep yall posted...that is, if she isnt "busy"... 420-Peace!

Sorry if some of it dosnt make sense, im really right now... Alright...ive posted about this situation before. You can veiiw my others if u wish. But i think this is gonna turn out bad for some reason. (Quick recap for those who dont wanna read it: Friejnds with this girl for 7 years, she broke up with her BF several wks ago. i told her how i felt, she said "she would kiss me and i would know when the time was (duh right)" Anyways...when i call her to hang out or something, she is doing something with someone else or she is busy and says she'll call me right back or whatever...so im like ok, sure. Problem is she says she is "busy" and goes to this other guys (one of my friends ) softball game or hangs out with him. I ask her if she was "talking" to him, and she replied, not really. Which i think is a load of crap...b/c she flirts with him and stuff. Im not one to get jealous usually, but i kinda am now...cause she could swing in his direction..dont ya think? i dont even know man...its too much mind games or something...i feel dumbfounded ...or...well something along those lines. Im probably overreacting...but i dont even know what to say any more..so just reply with ur thoughts plz or ask me ?'s if needed ill reply to them asap. Appriatiate it...Peace out

Thanks alot guys, and puff, im onot too good at writing poems...so i think ill scrap that idea...unless u think i should try anyways. I would feel dumb writing a poem....peace out

0X What up "dawg"!? Alright, i have a question. This girl, that happens to be my friend now (knowing her for 7 years now!), i REALLY like...maybe love...i dont know. Anyways, we've talked about having a relationship and what not, i expressed my feelings...blah blah blah. She said there is something b/t us, just not right now...(she just broke up with her bf that she had been dating for 1 1/2 years, this was several weeks ago). And to end the coversation about all our feelings and what not...she says she'll kiss me when she is ready. So a couple of ?s: -Will she really come to ME...or is she saying this to maybe make me kiss her or something?! (Never heard a girl say she'll make the move) -Should i kiss her and not wait.... or wait for her? -Or is it possible that she dosnt even like me and is just talkin' & teasin'? I dont know what to do in this situation...its kinda a weird one...but i cant stop thinkin about her and i want to start this relationship ASAP, but maybe its not the right time or something..I DONT KNOW! REPLY PLZ WITH YOUR THOUGHTS ON THESE ?'s and if you have other comments, i would love to hear them... Peace out!

Alright, heres the deal. Ive been friends with this girl for about 6 or 7 years now...really close friends that is. She recently got out of this relationship with this guy. They had been in it for a good year in a half. I hated him, not out of jealousy, but he was just a prick and she deserved better., cheated on her countless # of times. Well anyways, i REALLY like (almost love, so it feels) her, i have already talked to her last night (on the phone, and for EVER) about her and me getting together and she said that she want to be alone right now b/c of the previous relationship, which i completely understand, but on the other side she said there was something between us...Is she recooperating or something(its been about 3 weeks since breakup)? Another thing, i know why she wants to "be alone" because she is afraid of commitment to me and she thinks it will ruin our friend ship. And i replied with how could iyt ruin it, it could only make it better...which it would. She also said that i "picked a bad timing" to tell her how i feel...becasue alot of guys hit on her b/c her bf broke up and they tryin to "holla" or wahtever. I told her it was completely different with me and she agreed...i mean the only reason i said something is b/c she was laying next to me in my bed one night and i could not help not saying anything...it just HAD to comne out. Well after all this jibber jabber...i asked her i i had a chance in the "near future" and she replied "how near." I said "as near as possible, im ready, im just waiting for you (something along those lines). Then she said...this was a interesting thing to say and went something like... "I'll kiss you and then you will know..." Im like "uhhh ok (in my head im like "whaaaaaat!?!?)" and she says i need to go to sleep for school...says gnight and "I love You"....End of Conversation. This was last night......and earlier today we hung out and had lunch (we had made plans to chill today last night). She was in an exceptionaly good mood and was being (what i thought) very flirtatious. She was grabbing my hand alot in the car and was always trying to stare into my eyes (making me want to kiss her, but for some reason i hold back...Why?). Then after hung out for a while she had to do some homework so i let her go home and i left to chill with "da boyz." The thing is we went to my other friend's softball game, a guy named Brandon that she kinda has a "crush on or something. Aparently thats what ppl say../but ppl talk so who knows...I did ask her about her and this guy, she said there really isnt anytrhing between them and she is "just trying to hang out with friends." I am not really jealous at all...maybe sometimes when we all together, she likes to kinda "flirt" with him...but in a "teasing kinda way". So it appears, but that is just natural isnt it?? I really dont think she will go with him...should i be worried about this guy...i didnt even really care when they ent to her house to do homework...shit i dont know! I asked her out for dinner a couple of nightrs ago...so i could tell her "all the stuff" but she couldnt so that phone thing happened. Should i ask her out friday or something and give her flowers (the whole nine yards, ya know then try to kiss her myself?..?...or just let her approach me and make a move?...that usually dosnt happen, a girl coming to a guy and just start kissing him??? I really dont know if she wants me to kiss her or if she will kiss me...(man sometimes i want to sooo bad when we talk but something always makes it feel like its not right time or something,,,im probably just nervous or something) MAN I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! Why do girls have to be so damn complicated!!! WHAT do yall think aabout this situation?!?!?!?! PLEASE REPLY, I mean you read this long ass thing right....????

Thought i get this in there before i left for my surgery check up...So all in all, should i tell her i have feelings for her while she is w/ her BF and Just come at a none rushing approach...or other?...And if yes, how would i come about it...i think it will be awkward any way it happens...am i wrong? But i guess its better to try then not know right...Tell me what i aould do

Sup im new to this site...Im 18m from Austin,TX and saw some interesting post that looked like they helped ppl...so here i go...sorry its sooo long, but it feels good to spill this **** in some way... Alright, heres the deal... Ive known this girl named Natalie for quite some time, we are really good friends already. She has this boyfriend shes been with for about a year or so...which a long time i think considering it being highschool (for her anyway...her senior year, i graduated in May), but ****, what do i know. Anyways, i havent heard from her in a while...due to different schools and what not, and she just calls me out of the blue and ask if she can come over and chill w/ me. Naturally, due to my OVERWHELMING love for this girl, I am like "yea, sure... that would be great...havent seen you in a while...blah blah...," she jokingly replies..."are you sure i can come over...100% positive"silly remarks...like i was kidding or something? Dont really understand that part...IF someone could explain that for me that would be AWSOME! Going on, she comes over and we are having a great time just sitting in my living room talking and whatnot...I seem to make her laugh quite often, which i always thought was a good sign. Well she leaves, i just give her a casual hug, no big thing...she does have a boyfriend, so im hesitent and/or shy to ask her anything. (which AGRIVATES me to the max). But today was really badass...she calls ME, yet agian...and says she's bored and wants to hang out with me...and yet agian i am happy to tell her she can (she makes little jokes about "if it is OK to come over", very j/king sounding)...afterall i love just beingin her company. So we sitting in my living room agian (i cant do much, i had leg surgery..so im at home quite a bit). We are having a good conversation and all, then i offer a "smoke session" (thats what we will call the smoking of "LEGAL" herbs here... ).becasue she had talked about doing it before...long story short...So we go into my room and toke a bowl of some DANK herbs. Well now im am blazed as well as her. This is were it got a bit deeper than last time she came over (yes, even b4 we smoked)...she starts talkin about her boyfriend to me alot...which i hate kind of, but i listen so i dont hurt her feelings, to be that "good friend" (hopefully someday BF). Some bad things, some good... We are kinda getting close as im teaching her how to hit the "water pipe" (come on ppl, they're bongs!)... nothing real serious but still...Well we just chill in my room on my bed talking about everything...we have pretty good conversations, never any REAL dull moments, which i always thought was a good sign. I have to leave in the morning at 8am for check up on my surgery for 2 days, so i am awake now 3:10am with this girl that i adore in my head and i cant stop thinking about her...Im so confused as what to do on the BF situation...Should i wait till they are not together??,i cant wait much longer, it kills me, or tell her how i feel now?, and if i tell her now..how without imposing too much pressure on her current relationship??...I dont want to scare her away, or make her feel in an awkward postion b/t me and her bf. SOME INFO ON ME: I have been in 1 serious relationship that was kinda the same story. So im kinda experience but definatly a novice dater.Just to make things short: she had a BF, then we started hanging out alot...then one day we just kissed, at the movie theater parking lot looking for jobs...awkward i thought, but cool. WHAT DO I DO?!?! HELP ME!!!