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hey

i heard that too, i dont know whether it is true or just a myth, i heard that it was just mainly with red meats. weird

~LJ =;

hey

id talk to her and find out as much as you can about her and just get to know her better then just wait until the prom, she obviously doesnt care of your social status becuase she said that she would go with you to the prom with you so dont worry about it, she must like you to go to the prom with you. then maybe once the prom is over if you have really got on and like each other then maybe you could ask her out on a date, see how it goes and then take it from there.

hope this helps

~LJ =;

hey

i really dont like chest hair it reminds me of really old hairy men , no offence. but slight facial hair is ok

~LJ =;

hey there are a few things you could try, like writing poetry, that seems to help a lot of people here, or you could try something like a hobby or something to get you mind off what is happening between you and yor mum. once i saw this thing where this woman took all her anger out on this wall, she had loads of paints and just attacked it, throwing paint all over it, maybe you could try something like that, it looked really cool and its a good idea if your arty

hope this helps

~LJ =;

kool, id keep it as one, you wrote it that way and it makes it a bit more interesting so id leave it as it is.

~LJ =;

hey

you could try the 21 questions game, thats quite good, you can ask the other person anthing you want, eg if you had one wish what would it be, or what is your fav quote to anything like what would you do if someone shaved off your eyebrows, and then person answers and then it is their turn, and it carries on, that way you can find out what you have in common.

~LJ =;

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i am down to earth and so my guy would have to be too, he would have to be able to make me laugh when im down and be spontainious and active, i dont know really someone who is nice, kind and gentle i guess, oh and our convo has to flow, even when it is about the weirdest things

~LJ =;

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i seriously think that you should both tell your partners what you are doing, and that you want to carry on doing it. i dont think it is fair to carry on having an affair, i think that if you have feelings for each other and want to be together then it is ok but i wouldnt keep your other halves in the dark. just think how they are feeling, if you were in their shoes and you didnt know they were having an affair youd be gutted about it once you found out, youd be so hurt.

hope this makes you think

~LJ =;

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im guessing by your name that you are shy, maybe you could ask here over the net by IM or something so if you do say something wrong then you wont be totally embarrased when you see her face, or you could ask when you two are alone. im sure that she will want to be friends even though you have asked her because you did say that she liked you so she is more than likely to say yes.

~LJ =;

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id just remember you signature,

you laugh at me because im different, i laugh at you because your all the same

because who want to be the same anyway, why be a sheep and follow the trends of another, people are liked for their originality so stick to what you like and not be swayed but what people think

~LJ =;

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id ask her because if youre ok with no strings, and she thinks it is a commited relationship then she maybe come hurt, when she realsises, aslo no strings is a hard thing, especially when you start to develop feelings.

so id ask her, if things were gonna happen then theyd happen, just to make sure you have things clear and it stops people from getting hurt

~LJ =;

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if it has been there two years and hasnt caused any problems then i wouldnt worry, but were not all doctors, well that i know of so i agree with murdad and i would go and see you GP

~LJ=;

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no a girl doesnt want a gus to be cocky, well at least i dont. most girls want different things in a guy, just be yourself and if you insult her without reaslising and she takes affence then appologise and say that you didnt mean to hurt her. if you want to know whether it is time, just be it, but if you dont want to show your softer side then, have an underline of softness, only show it when you need to

~LJ =;

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i think that you should go out and just meet loads of people who are interested in the same things as you, for instance join a club or activity which you enjoy. also i think that cycling is a good idea because when you are feeling low it makes you feel better about yourself, it gets your mind off what is making you feel down, maybe you could go with someone.

if you think that you might be depressed then i would go and see a doctor.

~LJ =;

hey

i really like your poem, i liked the way you used direct speech, i was just wondering whether these are three different poems or one with three stanzas?

i especially liked this part

We depend on each other

Our blood would fall on the other's hands-

The ones who cause our pain

anyways nice poem(s)

~LJ =;

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sorry moderators i didnt realise that would come up as a beep. i didnt mean it to and ill be more careful next time.

~LJ =;

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i agree with pologirl214 sometimes having a boyfriend can be more hassel than its worth, i have been single for a while and i think it is great, there is no real comitment and responsiblity which comes with it, you can have loads of fun going out with your mates and meeting people without thinking 'oh wait i cant i have a bf' (not in a slutty way). just enjoy life because once you do find someone and get married then you are going to be with them for awhile and you wont have any freedom.

maybe there are guys who like you like that but are just shy to come up to you and ask you out, maybe you could be the confident one and ask them?

~LJ =;

hey id go with this girl

the other girl is really gorgeous to me neway and she is really bubbly and cute and funny.she seems to have a care free attitude which is great and i love that.i also love her smile and stuff like that.we do like each other but she admitted to me that she did have feelings for other guy as well.i seem to like her more now as she was very honest.we have kissed a few times, but this was before she admitted about the other guy.

i think this because of the way you wrote about her she seems to make you happier or at least thats the impression i received form your post. but remember looks arent everything and they dont last long, personality will last longer.

~LJ =;

hey

if you dont believe in abortion then i dont think that you should start, if you think that you can look after the child, get a good education and that is what you want then you should keep it and not have the abortion

there are other options which i think you know about such as giving your child up for adoption once he/she is born or maybe you could put him/her up for foster so that once you have finished you secondary education then you can look after them, it is really up to you.

as for telling your parent i would seriously tell them, how long have you know? the longer you leave it the harder it will be to tell them and soon you wont be able to hide it anyway. how about the father, does he know? maybe he and his family could help you.

hope this help, just remember to stick with what you believe

~LJ =;

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im happy with me (

id just have a PMA (positive mental attitude)

~LJ =;

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Kamurj can he please keep this post because im not sure whether realise that if you want to change capital letters to lower case then you have to rewrite the entire post and he did do a very long post and i dont know of another way if you do then maybe you could change it

~LJ =;

ps.

a) not all was done in upper case; and

b) he did give a reason for putin it in upper case

(look at line two and three) thank you hope this helps

hey i really liked your poem. thought it was creative keep us up to date with your work

~LJ =;

hey

id just go out again and make a better second impression, a great second impression will over rule a bad first one. just go out and join in with the conversation even if you are the only guy talkin at least youll be making an impact on them.

~LJ =;

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im sorry i didnt respond in time i didnt come on again last night, how did it go though did you call her? when she says "good for you", it doesnt seem as if she is listening to what you have been saying, and when you said that it became worse and more confusing by talking, maybe thats no the answer maybe it does need time. i would keep up the hope maybe she will realise how much you mean to her, otherwise couldnt you just be friends?

~LJ =;

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i personally wouldnt have stood for her seeing someone else behind your back but i guess its your choice,

id remember if she has done it once she might do it again, especially with the long distance thing, can a leopard change its spots?

i would give her some time to think about it. but wait shouldnt it be you who is making the decision of whether you want to be with her? why does she have to be the one who has the time and space to think about it? but if you have made the decision to stay with her then fine.

i woudlnt contact her, other than to let her know that you are willing to give it ago (thats if you are), but other than that id let her come to you, if she doesnt contact you then youll know her decision, she wont have wanted you enough to get over her pride and tall to you, or that she has made her decision to go with him

have you two talked about what she did at all?

i know i have asked alot of questions and i dont know whether they will help, maybe theyll make you think, im not sure

~LJ =;