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hey

i deffinatly think that will do the job, i think it is really sweet. are you going to give it her in english or the other?

~LJ =;

hey

i think that it is really nice did you write it yourself?

~LJ =;

hey

i know that you have probably heard this loads and laods of times before but just be yourself. it should come naturally to you, a girl/ woman is more likely to attracted to someone who is confident about who they are, they dont want someone to be false. just relaxe

~LJ =;

hey

wow i found your poem really inspirational, i think if you really want your parents to acknowledge who you are and how you are feeling, i would show them that poem as i think it may just hit them what they have forgotten and what they are missing out on.

~LJ =;

hey

id give them ''good'' names, and what i mean by that is, a name in which they are not going to want to change when they are older, i like the idea of naming then after their grandfather its quite sentimental in a way

the names i like for boys are Danny (my father's name), Adam, Luke, just something simple. you could buy a book of babies names, just a thought.

~LJ =;

i just want to say congratulations and good luck in the future. Im a twin too and im glad i always had someone to share my best memories with.

hey

i was once in the same place as you are in right now and i thought that the best mate was the one that i wanted, it turns out that i didnt end up with either, harsh i know but im still mates with them. but i was my own fault, so what im trying to say is that decide who you want before you make any decision, that way no one, including you gets hurt.

if you really want to be with your bf then the feelings for him (the other guy) should go, and you will get closer to him it just takes time

~LJ =;

id say man with love and no money, money is gonna run out some day but hopefully his love wouldnt.

~LJ =;

hey

i think in some ways it is discrimination, i dont think that it is right for a guy not to be allowed longer hair, there are loads of guys in my old school (i just left) who had longer hair than most of the girls. i do think it is wrong because its like says a girls not allowed shorter hair because its too much like lad, it should be up to the individuals own choice as to how long their hair is. but if he is gonna get into trouble then i think he should just wait till the 6 weeks hol and then grow it and then cut it again, or just wait until he finishes school, even though i dont think he should be made to!

~LJ =;

well if you havent known each other that long then you could play a game of 21 questions, all you basically do is ask random questions to help you find out stuff about each other that you wanna know. that way you can find out what you have in common and next time the conversattion will flow easier. it worked for me

hope it works for you

~LJ =;

hey

i really liked your poem, at the minute i can really relate as i have just left school, i thought it was and i really like how you write

keep it up

~LJ =;

HEY,

welcome to enotalone, i hope you find all the answers you are looking for.

~LJ =;

hey

if its the guy with dark brown / black hair, then yeh i think his hair is cool.

if not, who?

~LJ =;

hey

i like a guys who looks kinda insane, it makes them different when they do something unique with their hair, i like a guy when his hair is kinda longer or spiked, at the mo theres one person whos hair looks really cool, has anyone seen Brian from westlife's hair (im not too keen on the group) but his hair look really cool long and over his face.

but it really depends on the girl herself really, id go with what you like, but change is good

~LJ =;

hey

im in the same boat really, i just finished school the other week and now im in the middle of my exams, and im guessing that you are too, correct me if im wrong, i havent seen anyone recentally, but thats because were all revising, but once all my exams are over then im going to get a job, well at least i think i am, your 16 maybe you could do that, its something to do and youll have money to go out with also

~LJ =;

woohoo thats great im glad you told them and that everything is now ok, good luck everything

~LJ =;

cool poem i liked it alot.

~LJ =;

hey

maybe one time when your going to meet her and your rents ask you where are you going you could say

'' im going to meet my (her name)..''

and then let them figure it out from there, thats what one of my mates did and it got her out of telling her rents lol

try it you never know, it might work for you.

~LJ =;

God I thought my mates at 6'3 were tall. wow thats just amazing, I feel so small at 5'6

~LJ =;

A: i am not young (yet not old)

B: i dont have small breasts; and

C: i do understand, so there is no reason for you to explain

i can see that we have different view on certain aspects so im going to leave it becasue all we are going to do is go round in circles and not even solve anything (and NOT im not giving up because i NEVER give up, i just have other things to do i.e revision for my exams which are coming up),

so thanks for the great debate and you can continue without me if you want

bye

~LJ =;

hey

wow thats good, i bet your glad you waited, anyways i hope thing work out for you

~LJ =;

hey

id give him some time, i wouldnt waste 5 months on the fact that he hasnt called you back, im sure he will, if he doesnt called back or contact you in any way then, in like a week or so then decide.

~LJ =;

hey

sleep is a major part of growth and maybe a lack of it could stunt your growth slightly, but as long as you get 8-10 hours of sleep a night you should be fine

~LJ =;

wow thats great, congratulations i hope everything goes well for you two and your big day

good luck to the future and everthing

~LJ =;

@ ck and others

So lets say I don't have a car so I have to take the bus everywhere. However, lets say my older brother goes to europe for several months. Let us also say that I drive his Acura around "on a regular bases" during this period long enough for the females to think the car is mine. The question is is it really mine or am I using it to attract their attention under false pretences?

this was what was said, there was no mention of paying for the car, even tho it was an example.

I mean yeah shen piad for the bra but she is not born with those boobies. Sorry to inform you, but 2 wrongs don't make a right.

hahaha, very funny even though there are two breast it doesnt mean two wrongs, its still one. the woman who wears the padded / push up bra is not lying about who she is, she would tell the man / women that they are not real or at least they would find out when you know.. she would just be using them for confidence, whereas with the man he is lying, unless he tell her / him / them, but this is very unlikely becuase the people he meets wont have time to ask because theyll be flying past in their cars, unless he sits in his car all day!!

Yes it is how are you going to tell somebody to be real with themselves when your trying to hide the fact you got small breast?

she wouldnt be trying to hide the fact that she has smaller breast! she is just giving herself the confidence to be the person she is!! besides what is wrong with smaller breasts? people are too materialistic these days ,

so if your saying that then is the guys trying to cover up his small penis then if he drive a cool car?

~LJ =;

hey

So lets say I don't have a car so I have to take the bus everywhere. However, lets say my older brother goes to europe for several months. Let us also say that I drive his Acura around "on a regular bases" during this period long enough for the females to think the car is mine. The question is is it really mine or am I using it to attract their attention under false pretences?

ash

the car isnt your and thereforeeee you arent being who you say you are, you are lying, when a girl wears a padded bra, then it is usually hers since we all have different sizes, and thereforeeee she is being who she is and not someone else like she sister lets say, also as BreArna we wear clothes to feel good and confident about who we and to enhance how we feel about ourselves and they are not to just impress men!! that is where men and women differ, women do things for them self and men do things to attract the attension of women.

maybe if you could come up with a different senario then i could see where you are coming from.

~LJ =;