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hey

thanks for responding to the both of you, bb i know where you are coming from i know the feeling of love for your family is different from a partner or friends. and nifty_swifty i really liked the way you spoke about love in your first post, i would like to see what you had writen before because i think you have some really good thoughts on love so if you could show them me that would be great

thanks again both of you

~LJ =;

hey wow i really liked those poems, i thought they were really good, i especially liked the last one.

mainly this stanza:

I know you are right there,

somewhere.

My tears now glow and sound.

I want to burst out crying loud

Falling to the ground.

maybe you could share these with the rest of the forum, im sure they would give you some advice and opinions on them, and im sure they would really like to read them, they are reallly good.

keep writing

~LJ =;

hey

i was just wondering everyones opinions one love, and whether you can measure it and the amount you feel for a person.

what do you think, is it possible to measure love?

i personally dont think that it is possible to measure love, because once you have that emotion that you feel for a person, you have it, you have all of love, and you have it to the max. i know that you can love someone until it physically hurts, maybe there are stages which you can build up on or maybe it all comes at once i dont know, what do you think?

any thoughts welcome

~LJ =;

hey

wow i really liked your poem, it was something different from the usual types of poetry your see. i thought it was excellent.

keep writing.

~LJ =;

hey

wow i really liked your poem, i think it is very personal and very interesting, i liked all the different vocabulary you used. i think that she will really like it, i would deffinatly show it to her.

nice poem, you hvae talent, now you have started youd best not stop,

~LJ =;

hey

i can see your point mahlina that there is limited things which you can buy, but for some it is just to make themselves feel better and its the clothes which gives them a confidence boost which they may need.

i personally dont like wearing tight jeans, it makes me feel really self consious and i feel that every body is looking, i prefer to wear baggy more comfy jeans and trouser.

couldnt the same thing be said about girls and mini skirts or guys and the way they wear their jeans, from where i live, i always see guys with their jeans half way to their ankels.

i think it is just the way fashion is changing due to the media and fame. new clothes are designed to what famous people are wear becuase they think that is what everyone wants to wear but because everything is being mass produced we have to buy what is on offer and we have no choice!.

~LJ =;

hey

wow thats great, PieLover, i dont think hell say no, im sure hell help you out, if the best mate didnt tell you who he liked then maybe you could bring that up as an ice braker, so its not straight into the thing you want to know, and if he did tell you who he liked then maybe you could talk about that, just as an ice braker. i really think he wont mind helping you out,

just go for it, you really wont have a heart attack, youll be fine.

~LJ =;

hey

i would play your best becuase if she does find out that you pretended to loose or just played lightly then she is more likely to not respect you for your decision, besides she might be a very good sports or games person and may win you anyway, and what are you going to gain from letting her win, nothin so i would deffinatley just play fair.

but its your decision

~LJ =;

hey

wow i really liked your poem,. it think it was really good, maybe you could ask her to read it and see what she thinks of it.

i think the idea of a necklace is a really good idea, maybe you could engrave one of the lines of your poem in it, then she should realise that the poem was for her

just a thought i really liked your poem, i wouldnt change anything

~LJ =;

hey

i really liked the first part of your poem, but i though the second (nearer the end) was slightly/really morbid. it was still really good though.

this is the bid i liked:

love mixed with hate

god, it's making me sick

so many lies in those eyes of yours

you think i don't hear the words that they say?

and you're just as guilty as them

LOVING YOU SHOULD BE A SIN

i think it really shows how you are feeling

~LJ =;

hey

i think that you should constantly tell your friends how your feeling, because if you dont tell them then how are they supposed to know. maybe it was a little inconsiderate of them to talk about a subject which you have no knowledge of but im sure that you do the same, maybe without realsing it, just as they have.

~LJ =;

hey

i think LDR friendships work more than LDR's becuase there are no real ties and commitments between the two people. i think if you want a close LDR friendship then you should at least talk a few times a week and meet up occasionally to do something together other wise it would just be an IM friendship.

~LJ =;

hey

im guessing because he started the sexual convo with you then he might mean you when he says hell have to work on it. maybe you could ask him what and who he meant when he said it.

hope this helps

~LJ =;

hey welcome to enotalone,

maybe his bestfriend could help you, you could ask him whether the guy you like, likes you because he seemed like a very good sourse before so he could maybe help you out.

or you could just go for it and ask the guy you like out and then youll know for sure whether he likes you when you get your response.

hope this helps

~LJ =;

hey and welcome to enotalone,

well when a girl is interested in a guy she would usually gain eye contact with them and try to keep it. other things may be like touching a guys arm or chest, that kinda thing or smiling and playing with their hair is another good indication

hope this help

~LJ =;

hey

wow i really like your poem, i think it fulfilled the way you feel to the depths, i believe the only way to hate someone is if you have once loved them and that is the only way that you truly know your feelings towards them, if that makes sense and i feel that your poem portrayed that, so i really like it, and if you are pregnant then congratulations and i wish you the best in the future.

nice poem, keep writing.

~LJ =;

hey

i have noticed that also, i agree with you that advice, no matter who it is from or their age advice is still advice, but i think that if someone older than you does give you advice then it is still as good as someone who is younger if not better becuase they have the experience from when they were younger, so they will be wiser on certain situations.

maybe sometimes it would be better to withhold your age, say, if you were advicing someone older on their serious relationship of many years, because the author may think that your advice isnt as great because you were alot younger rather than someone who is older and may have experience

i dont really know where i was going with this so i will leave it, and just say that i agree with the advice is advice.

~LJ =;

hey

first off happy birthday and secondly you said that you wanted to shape up, is that just your biceps or your entire body?

if you wanted to build up your biceps then you could do push ups which are basically when you lay on the floor face down and push your entire body up off the floor. i dont know many others for your biceps, you could try weights, another could be where you sit on a chair or bench and place you feet and couple of foot away and then lower your self off the bench, then use your muscles to pull yourself back up again, if you repeat this that houlf work.

if you want to build up your whole body then you could try situps. this is where you lay on your back and sit up, and try to touch your knees with your elbows. this should work you stomach muscles. if you wanted to work your leg muscles you could try squats, this is where you bend your knees and sit down and then stand up straight again, the lower you go the more it will work you body.

if you wanted you could try activities like running, jogging and swimming they will also help build up your msucles.

hope this helps

~LJ =;

hey

to me dress isnt too big of a thing, i really dont mind what a guy wears as long as he looks good and feels confident in it.

~LJ =;

hey

its a really cool game, i agree with abcd1234, its really hard to think of Q's but its even harder to think of answer on the spot, i can think of loads now though. weird

good topic, real ice breaker

~LJ =;

hey

thats a really cool idea. ill let you know how it goes

~LJ =;

hey

i really like you style of writing. i really like the last on, especially the second stanze

The dazzling silence has made me blind

Not being numb

like a soul in the grind.

keep writing, i think you are really good.

~LJ =;

hey

thanks for replying, some great ideas for ways to destress, i told you that i would tell you mine, and ok i have a few normal ones like, reading, walking, listening to music, exercise but i have a really weird one, has any of you ever had prawns with the body still intact, (dead ones of course) it is really relaxing to sit and pull the body and head off, plus at the end you get to eat them which is good.

anyways thanks again for responding

~LJ =;

hey

i dont see any problem with guys wearing glasses, sometimes it even makes them look better, some glasses are cool and i think they can suit anyone if you get the fight style and shape for your face.

~LJ =;

hey guys

i was just wondering what you do to relieve stress?

~LJ =;

p.s. i might tell you mine later its a bit embarrasing and evil